well in the same time my life is ruined cause of my parents devorce and other huge problems I can't seem to find the girl for me now a days cause ive been caught up with so many things ive had past relationships but it didn't work well. Now I have all the time cause of my vacation .
2006-12-21 13:15:59 · 22 answers · asked by enzoespi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok lets say not a girl but someone to help me in this time cause the devorce is still in my head and it will never come out cause all my life I wished that Me and my Mom Dad And Bro would go cruising in ocean just the four of us together happy but it will never happen (im seriously crying)
2006-12-21 13:22:11 · update #1
cause its like i was not connected with my friends when the devorce was going on and now there well gone for christmas and now im just locked up in my room typing for help on yahoo answers.
2006-12-21 13:24:37 · update #2
and im a boy for those who think im a girl
2006-12-21 13:25:53 · update #3
First of all you need to stop looking. Second of all you should be praying and asking God for help because he's the best match maker out there. He'll give you what you need as well as what you want. He waits until he knows it's right to bring them into your life and not a moment before. If you try it on your own then your only going to fail and possible wind up alone. Take it from me I asked him to bring my soulmate and he did. All those other match making services out there are amatures compared to him. God made us so he's had our soulmate planned out for us since before any of us were ever born but it's up to us to ask him and that's when he'll do it. He wants us to ask him otherwise he won't do it. Trust me when you ask him he'll deliver but don't expect him to do it right away or on your time because he has a time and a place for it and it's worth it. Stop worrying about it first of all and trust me asking God is better then anyone else out there.
2006-12-21 13:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush it. I've been there. I got married late in life and it was real bad. After 3 years. No children fortunatly. I used to say to my mother all my friends are married and I'm so lonely. She said I'd like to see you with somebody but remember if you get the wrong person you'll be begging to be single again. Boys was she right. I was older but inexperienced and did this one ever see me coming. I remarried to one that was a good friend. Under my nose all the time and it grew into love. Be careful. there are a lot of sharks out there that will prey on the inexperienced. Take your time. I know you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody and not go through the heart ache of watching it fall
apart shortly after. Enjoy the holiday and life no matter what state in life.
2006-12-21 13:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by robert m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all stop looking and when you think he has come along to your time and get to know him there is a honeymoon period in every relationship when it's new. If he is truly the one you will know it.
mean while work on you. make sure that you have established a good relationship with yourself.
Love you first if you don't it will be difficult to find someone who will.
finally remember no one can make you happy they can only add to your happiness.
My best to you!
2006-12-21 13:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by Don't cha baby don't cha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude i feel the same way I've been working through my stuff from the past and now I'm threw it but can't seem to find any one never mind Mr. right. i keep getting told hang in there sooner or later you'll find him so i have no advice except your brave for posting this and keep searching.
2006-12-21 13:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by ~*These Blue Eyes Tell No Lies*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you'll know and i'll say Pray. To me, there is no streangth like a prayer. : ) Good Luck in finding that Special Someone! : )
2006-12-21 13:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by Charnelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by going with what ur heart says and is the person likes u...im sry to here bout ur parents its the same with me i never had a father...just dont let it get u down stand tall good soldier...stand tall and just go with ur heart
2006-12-21 13:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by Hayden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl will not solve your problems. You can't make anyone happy unless you are happy yourself!
2006-12-21 13:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by Moxie Crimefighter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the local bar and drink alot then you will find someone!
2006-12-21 13:18:16 · answer #8 · answered by tomos h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just Pray and dont rush it! Give it all to God. and He will provide for your needs.
2006-12-21 13:18:49 · answer #9 · answered by auburn_gurl_94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant just make a relationship happen, when someone will come along go for it
2006-12-21 13:17:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋