Ok so basically there is this guy in my school that I REALLY like. When I say really, I mean really!! And I want to tell him I like him, but I m so afraid of rejection or his response!!!!!!! Please give me some advice on this; I would really appreciate it.
2006-12-21 12:57:38 · 25 answers · asked by Alycia [♥] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well it really just depends on what kind of guy he is. if he's like jerky or heard him as even a little jerky... i wouldn't risk the humiliation. but if he's a nice guy, then go for it. talk to the guy. but don't be like too fast. NOT like walk up tohim and say "i like you" and expect for him to like you back. you could just be friends with him first to see if he's really worth it then is he is... start giving hints then finally talking to him seriously and telling him you like him. and when i meant not to be too fast and give it time i dont mean like a week. i mean get to really know him first. and like i said, if the guy is even a little jerky, he might make fun of you and if he's a really nice guy, he would tell you straight up that he just doesnt see you guys as being together and would be nice about it too.
hope that helps =)
2006-12-21 13:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by xxazaleanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The trick is not to tell him you like him. First, you need to find out if he likes you. You can do this through a friend probably. Or, you can have someone drop him a hint, and then tell you what his response it. Either way, whether you ask him directly or do it through someone else, if he says "no", then you'll still need to deal with that feeling of rejection. But just remember that it is not YOU he would be rejecting...not everyone is a good match, so if he says "no", it's just karma clearing the way for your true love.
2006-12-21 21:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by KEN 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
write him a note so you can think about what you want to say ahead of time, and he can read it when he wants to. If you decide not to give him the note, at least you thought it out for a good while, and will have ideas in your head.
Or just say "can I ask you something?" For some reason, that seems to be a good way to start it off. If you chicken out at the last second, you can ask him something else and try again tomorrow.
2006-12-21 21:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't scare him off by being too forward; instead, can't you give him a hint so that if he doesn't feel the same way about you, you won't be embarrassed? Can't you say something to him in a joking way, maybe after he says something funny or cute, such as "You are so cute!" And see how he reacts? There are ways to let someone know you like them without saying it directly. That way, if he doesn't reciprocate, then you can just pretend that you were joking.
2006-12-21 21:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anniesgran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your going to have this feeling like 50 more times and there is nothing you can do about. like sometimes it works out sooo well and some times it just well sucks!
the onlything you can do is give it a shot and go up to hhim and just ask him say umm well i was wondering if .. look dude you want to hang out?
you may get rejected and you may be suprized but all you canj do is eaither act on it and feel alive
or stay in this Crisis for life?
2006-12-21 21:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a crisis i wish i was back in school. First young one who cares about rejection..if he says no its not meant to be..yes its gonna hurt for a bit but it will pass. Stick to your studies then worry about boys later
2006-12-21 21:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should try to talk to him first you know get to know him then see if it can go farther just hang out a few times get to know him and it should be fine but for the rejection the only thing you can do is hope for the best of it all
2006-12-21 21:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by skeletalgrlforeverwaiting 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would probably be better off finding out what he thinks of by asking one of his friends or have one of your friends ask his friends. But don't ask a friend to ask him, if you are going to ask him, do it yourself. It will turn out better that way, trust me. The worst thing he can say is no and that is not a yes. Right now you're not getting a yes anyway and you won't get one until you ask.
2006-12-21 21:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by xfootballstarx87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in ur same boat. i like a boy so much, but im afraid of him rejecting me. just build up confidence. say to urself in the mirror. u are good. u r pretty. u r amazing. build up ur self esteem, and then no one's words can hurt ur feelings. even if that word is no.
2006-12-21 21:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to the guy a while and try to get a feel of how he feels about you. When you are getting kinda friendly tell him that you like him and see how he reacts
2006-12-21 21:00:29 · answer #10 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋