If you and your spouse argue all the time and you were pregnant, did the baby come out alright?
2006-12-21 12:51:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
No, he has never touched me in anger, but our relationship is very rocky.
2006-12-21 13:06:23 · update #1
me and my husband never got married untill i was 8 months pregnant. we fought the whole time i was pregnant, and she was born perfectly healthy. believe me, we had some hard times. and to this day, my daughter is one of the most funniest and loving 2 year olds i've seen. she laughs all the time, so i know she's happy. if you get too stressed out, dont be afraid to get away for a while. i believe, whatever emotion you go through, your baby feels it through you. but it dosent mean that she's going to be unhealthy.
2006-12-21 17:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by superyduperymommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my ex had 3 boys and argued through each pregnancy. The only thing you might have to worry about is the stress of the arguing causing premature labor. Also after the child is born go out of your way to hold it and love it, it may sound weird but because of all the arguing that happened during my second pregnancy I had the hardest time just being near the baby. Needless to say once I divorced him it went better. Now me and my boys are just fine. I would suggest leaving him as soon as you get a chance. It would be better for both you and the child.
2006-12-21 21:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kathie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy is a stressful time for both partners. Has there been other changes that are stressing the relationship? Money problems, job loss, death of a family member? How does your husband feel about the new baby? These are somethings I would look at. My husband and I bicker a lot, pregnant or not, so I know how you feel. My kids are fine, we just don't bicker in front of them. Obviously this is kinda impossible when you are pregnant, but you asked so I am just letting you know my daughter is doing great. See a counciler if you have concerns about your marriage.
2006-12-21 22:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by katherinernilson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went threw a very bad relationship with my ex while pregnant and besides losing weight my whole pregnancy and having heart palputations my son came out perfectly normal. I'm sure yours will also, unless you are being beaten then i would be very concerned.
2006-12-21 21:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, the baie came out fine. However, the long term effects of it are bad. I stayed married to the guy for another ten years, and my children both have severe emotional porblems (pTSD) Post traumatic stress disorder, from it.
2006-12-21 20:54:51 · answer #5 · answered by Susan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going through it now. It is so hard, it ruins the entire pregnancy.
2006-12-21 21:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by micg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋