ok so the deal was i have known this guy for awhile and i really like him so i did ask him out and he said yes. we were goin to go on a saturday,but on the same day where we made the date, he canceld because he found later out that he had somethen to do that day, he told me he would call me. But he has been ignoring me @ school as good as he can, and i dont know what to do anymore. please help!
2006-12-21 12:50:57 · 14 answers · asked by Julia N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him what's going on.
2006-12-21 12:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but it sounds a whole like he was sorry that he agreed when you asked him, found an excuse to get out of it, and he doesn't want to make a new date with you. I mean, back when it was only the guys asking the gals, that used to happen when the gal changed her mind and decided she didn't want to keep that date. She called the guy and made up some excuse --- she had to go somewhere with her mother, or whatever.
Women wanted equality with the guys, and now they have it. They can ask a guy out these days, but sometimes, now, it's the guy who changes his mind and wants to wriggle out of it. Hey, that's life. It happens. Forget about him and move on. You know what they say... if you miss one bus, there's another one going to be coming along right behind, lol.
2006-12-21 13:06:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this guy is not ready to have a serious relationship with you just yet and he doesn't know how to tell you. Or, Something went wrong with home/family and he is so wrapped up in it that he simply doesn't feel comfortable talking to you about it. When you see him next ask him if everything is OK. Just because it looks and smells like he is ignoring you, doesn't mean he is doing it intentionally.
2006-12-21 12:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by barbara b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never asks a guy out, because he will feel that you are desperate. Let a man be a man and let him make the first move.
Good Luck to you!!!
2006-12-21 12:56:10 · answer #4 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? What I bet happened is that he likes you but he's never dated before so he doesn't know how to tell his parents and he can't find out how to go without them finding out. Hope I helped! Good Luck!
2006-12-21 12:55:31 · answer #5 · answered by hello. it's me. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him. ask him whats up. sometimes guys get shy when you first start going out and tend to avoid you because they dont know how they should act now that you guys are "going out". if you cant wait for him to turn around you go up to him! good luck.
2006-12-21 12:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by Missy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
despite if or no longer we sense a connection with you. If she grew to become into inviting you to hand out, exterior of the little talks to adult adult males have then you certainly would not have any reason to be frightened approximately her asserting no. perhaps you mustn't call it a date, basically set out a time the place you and her can spend some on my own time at the same time, like a action picture and dinner. without approaching good or something such as you desire to pass out. enable her see the relaxing, romantic area of her and then if issues pass nicely, you would know the place to pass from there. basically verify you ask her on the tip of the evening "despite if she had a good time." that'll be your first clue :] different then that basically be posititve with your self and be your self.
2016-11-28 03:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just afraid to go out with you b/c you asked him and he didn't ask you first. go to him and tell you want to know what the deal is and why he want talk to you.
2006-12-21 12:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he heard some bad rumors about u
or another girl that likes can be spreading the rumors or ask him out and he like her more than u
2006-12-21 12:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just shy, maybe because he doesnt feel comfortable around you yet.give it some time or try talking to him about it
2006-12-21 12:53:54 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋