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Today, I'm perfectly fine. I woke up and acted silly with my boyfriend, came home and was happy all day long. BUT, lately I've been going through some weird emotions. I think my boyfriend hurt my self esteem a bit with some physical comments such as "your body could be a lot better" and then he made a comment about how he had "great" sex with this girl he works with. (Before we met) And we are always honest with each other, but that thought ran through my mind a lot. THEN, one day we were having sex and he couldn't finish. (Which made me feel insecure about our sex life.)
Point is, for the past week or so I have been getting really depressed and normally I'd start crying and I feel just ugly and I didn't want to have sex with my boyfriend and I just felt unwanted.
Now, I'm back to normal, but what happened to me?
Why was I so sad all the time and how come I couldn't get over it and just be happy?
I was on birth control and I have my period, but this never happened to me before

2006-12-21 12:46:58 · 2 answers · asked by jennytkd13 3 in Health Mental Health

2 answers

I think your boyfriend is insensitive, but you also need to not rely on him for your self-esteem. One episode of "not being able to finish" is not a reflection on you. He may have been tired, or drunk, or thinking about work.
I would suggest that you build up your self esteem, so that you're not reliant on your boyfriend for how you feel. Join a club, get a hobby, volunteer, do something different with your life.
You may find some way to volunteer during Xmas Day -- you'll see what other people's lives are like and get out of your head.
Also, try some exercise, about 30 minutes a day of walking or something, and you'll find that will lift your spirits. It's been shown to help.
If the depression goes on for more than two weeks, see your doctor. You may have low thyroid or something.
Good luck!

2006-12-22 07:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0 0

if your boyfriend wants you to change im not sure that hes a ideal
guy to hang out with.and telling you that your body should change
and that sex was better with someone else that keys that he is
seriously wacked.lose him trust me.i was married to the same kind of jerk.i felt much better when he was all gone.and dont place so much imporance on what someone else thinks.you are
you.tell him to deal or walk.

2006-12-23 00:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by mentalzan2 2 · 0 0

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