I might go out with a girl tomorrow night...and while I do know her, I don't know her all that WELL. I find when I'm out with people, my stomach churns and I get really nervous. Are there any techniques I can use to calm the eff down?
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2006-12-21 12:46:31 · 7 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just think..."she likes me. She already said yes to go out with me so she must already be attracted some how" Good luck! :)
2006-12-21 12:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by hello. it's me. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I used to sweat from my armpits during those kinds of times. The anxiety will not disappear if you keep having the same perspective. You are scared to mess up. You have to start thinking "oh well, whats the worst that could happen?" or maybe "hey im gonna be myself and thats what she'll see"...When you change your view you will become more confident and therefore will not worry or be anxious about whats going to happen. Let everything flow...be yourself...
2006-12-21 20:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are no "tricks" so stop nervousness. You just have to know that you have to make a good impression. And yea i know how you feel, and it's not a pleasant feeling. If you just think of all the bad things that could happen, you have to think positive. Think what it'll be like just you and her all alone. So chill and I know you can do it. Good Luck!!
2006-12-21 20:55:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... It's called Xanax. Good luck.
2006-12-21 20:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
deep breaths. dont think about it so much, just go with the flow. If you let your guard down and start enjoying her company, the rest will just fall into place naturally.
2006-12-21 20:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's hard..cause i was like that too...and for me..i think it was just getting to know the person more..first date was scary..but then others became more comfy..just try to smile..make some jokes, be u!
2006-12-21 20:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by M V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal but dont loose ur cool be calm and make eye contact
good luck !
2006-12-21 20:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋