because every body says he's going to brake-up with me even my bff. then i asked him and he's like i didn't say that there lying i promise HELP HElp
2006-12-21 12:43:54 · 11 answers · asked by Elisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he is acting like that, telling everyone that he is going to break up with you, and if he is ignoring you or not treating you with respect, then you should dump him. Don't ever try and change who you are for someone else. You are way too good for that. You shouldn't have to do anything to try and get your own boyfriend to notice you. If you have to do something to get him to notice you, then he is not the one for you, because you are TOO GOOD for him. You should find someone who will like you for you, and not want you to change into someone else.
2006-12-21 12:46:39 · answer #1 · answered by ashleyrt1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus more on yourself and getting back into doing things that YOU like to do. It was that special spark of independence that attracted him in the first place. It seems the minute we sacrifice even a small part of that, men get too comfortable and start neglecting the little things in a relationship. Focus on you, not him and it should get his attention. He'll start wondering if HE'S not as exciting to you then set out to prove he is. Good luck to you!
2006-12-21 12:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by crazyjeans12000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this wasn't meant to be...and u should accept it. Your bf won't notice u..what's that telling u? and by trying to attract his attention again..won't that make u look desperate? I say if u break up..and u continue living ur life..he'll see what he was missing might want u back.
2006-12-21 12:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by M V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is telling things like this be u the one breaking up with him .
u cant take attention , or he gives u any for what u are and because he likes u or he does not . do nothing which is not urself , then he would maybe pay more attention but not because its u but because u put on a mask for something u arent .
2006-12-21 19:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u have to get him to notice u thats not a bf thats a cursh u should be notice by him everyday about him goin to break-up wit u dont let other people get into ur relationship its between u and ur man not u ur man and ur bff
2006-12-21 12:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by kiya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want your boyfriend to pay more attention to you, then you need to put your priorities in order. always take care of number one (thats you). your friends might just be jealous- are YOU noticing changes in his personality? dont let others project their emotions on to you. you are worth chasing, having, and loving. and if he cant see that, then find someone who will. the more confident you are about who you are, the more people will see that and see you.
2006-12-21 12:49:16 · answer #6 · answered by orange blossom honey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you feel you NEED him, your BF should automatically notice you. Its not fair on you wondering how you can be noticed!!
Why don't you get someone who you dont need to work so hard with, I know all relationships need work but thats together NOT to be noticed thats so disrespectful
2006-12-21 19:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by rosa_govan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only 1 way get hold of someone and snog them right in fornt of him he will notice you then then tell him your both over you have had enuogh of him if he loves you and wants you he will beg for you
2006-12-21 15:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by andrew b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try dressing more like his mom & baking for him
2006-12-21 12:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by gina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him first.... act like a snob.... why would you want to do that?
2006-12-21 12:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by uncorrupted81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋