because i like this boy but my friend is going out with him but he flirts with me sometimes.do i flirt back with him?
2006-12-21 12:41:57 · 52 answers · asked by gordicakes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no dont do that.... just be friendly but not too friendly and bide your time....;o♥
2006-12-21 12:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely DO NOT try to break them up! What kind of friend would you be? I understand that you like this boy but you also have to consider your friend's feelings towards him. And you say, he flirts with you? Well, then maybe he isn't a very good boyrfriend and that would just go to show that he wouldn't even be a good boyfriend for you either! Imagine if it was the other way around, how would you feel if you were going out with him but your best friend liked him too & flirted with him. I don't think you would like that much. Just be happy for her...u wouldn't want to ruin your friendship would you? Besides boys will come and go throughout your life, but friends will always be there for you. And if you choose a boy over your friend, more than likely that boy will leave you & you will be left with no boyfriend and no best friend and you will just regret everything you did. Now isn't that enought to make you want to leave their relationship alone?
2006-12-21 14:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by *Manda* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with flirting. But the rest depends on how much you like this guy and your friend. He could be just having fun by flirting with you. you should try and find out if he feels the same way about you as you feel about him. Then think is he worth maybe loosing a friend over.
2006-12-21 12:47:38 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ ltlsunny ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want someone that will be disrespectful to you? If he is disrespecting your friend by flirting will you, why do you not think that he'll do the same thing to you. This guy really isn't worth your time, unless you don't care about being disrespected. You can bet he's flirting with others also. Leave this one alone, not to mention he's already dating your friend. Don't run after the trash.
2006-12-21 12:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by mouse in chicago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not try to break them up, and you are being very mean and selfish just for thinking that. Would you like it if your friend liked your boyfriend and tried to break you up?? He is your friend's boyfriend, why would you want to hurt her and steal him? Does he flirt with you or is he just being friendly? Even if he does flirt with you, he is probably just having a little fun, being nice to his girlfriend's friend. Don't try to break them up, you will lose your friend if you do. No do not flirt back, leave him alone, and don't try to come between your friend and her guy.
2006-12-21 12:47:23 · answer #5 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? my answer to you is to grow up. If you were a real friend you would tell your friend the loser boyfriend she has, keep it moving. There are so many boys out there, why do you have to go with the loser boyfriend that flirts with you? in other words my dude look at it this way if he does it to her what makes you think he won't do it to you "give yourself some more respect".
2006-12-21 12:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by dominicandyme22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, how do you know shes not reading ur question right now?
And 2nd of all, you have to decide whats worth more,
These are ur options...
Option A:
You split them up. Your friend is HEARTBROKEN.
You go out with him, ur friend hates you.
You got the boy that probably wont be THE ONE but you lost your friend that could be with you 4ever.
Option B:
You resist asking him out. You suffer a little, but your friend is happy. Whenever he flirts with you, you walk away, you do the right thing.
You lose the boy, your friend has him (but shes happy).
And you get to keep her!
NO MAKE THE DECISION,
OPTION A OR B!
2006-12-21 12:47:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO... NO WAY!!!... i cant believe u are even contemplating it... she is ur friend... first rule of friendship is 2 NEVER go anywhere near her bf or her ex... u cannot under any circumstances do it... if he really is flirting with u alot then i suggest u tell ur friend what a jerk he is being to her but if she decides to break up with him dont touch him... he isnt ur's 2 touch... many friendships break up over guys... i know that me and one of my friends havent talked in 2 yrs because of her doing that to me... so dont let it happen! find sum guy thats gunna treat u right... besides if he is flirting with u when he is with ur friend whats to say he wont do it to u also? hop that helps... GOod luck!
2006-12-21 12:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! What the hell are you thinking? Sounds like you are just jealous. What you see as flirting may actually just be him trying to be nice to you! You obviously must not be a good friend if you are thinking of breaking them up and hurting your friend!
2006-12-21 12:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by quizicalgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell The Girl To Run To Mexico Because A fat Sumo Wresteler is after her
2006-12-21 12:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by CoolDude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well of coarse you thinking that. But that girl is your friend you shouldnt do your friend like that.friends are always there well should be, but a boy they come and go as you should know.and that would make you a hater if you try to break them up just because you like him.Okay flirting is nothing. Let him come to you if anything so it wont be as you trying go for him he would be trying to talk to you.So like if your friend ever find out then its gonna be all his fault because he came to you.And there is plenty more fish in the sea.Please dont fight over one boy.thats crazy let him come to you.And dont do your friend like that.Dont hurt her feelings you wouldnt want her to do that for you right?
2006-12-21 12:48:05 · answer #11 · answered by bmoresassy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋