my brother doesnt love me like he used to all he does is be mean to me and i think its his wifes doing. she doesnt like me. i dont know what to do
2006-12-21 12:37:24 · 9 answers · asked by valreemariecreed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I have the same problem, although my brother is a bit of an *SS to begin with, but.... I just look at it this way... (and yes, this is being a bit pessimistic, but hey... you have to be realistic about these things..)
Most marriages these days end in divorce.
Blood is thicker than water and no matter what, you are ALWAYS going to be his sister (or brother, if you're a guy).
Time is on your side.
2006-12-21 12:42:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a sister in law who hates me too because of the same reason, but once you get married, your love for eachother is very strong and you bond and defend your spouse, My sister in law hates me, and has to prove she is better than me all the time and It is very frustrating, because I havent done anything wrong, anyway just the other side of the story.
2006-12-21 12:53:20 · answer #2 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is jealous of you and your brothers relationship and she is getting mad and he thinks that by trating you like that it will please his wife. i bet he only does it when she is around. i know that feeling my brother does this also. her and iget along she is just bit**y person.
just stand up for your self towards him he is your brother he wont get mad and she will see that she cant just walk all over you but when he takes her side let him and let it go it is important that she fels he loves her more then anyone and will take her side no matter what its fase ! and everything else that the first person said be super nice to her!
2006-12-21 12:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by kate86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems she's jealous of any closeness the two of you might have and any possible attention he might be paying you because it takes away from her. Be nice to her, keep working on her in kind ways, make her feel important. Kill her with kindness, so to speak. Good luck!
2006-12-21 12:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by crazyjeans12000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Are His Sister, You Are In No Danger. He will not abandon you. Should things go south with her, he will know he can turn to you as is right.
Your blood, and blood is thicker than water. Be secure.
2006-12-21 13:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by liddycaliente 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your brother and tell him of your feelings, not around his wife. And do not talk badly of her, that will not win you any points. He loves her and you have to respect his relationship with her. Just talk to him and tell him you are feeling left out. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-21 12:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is to blame, not your sister in law. He is an adult and should know by now that family is important...
2006-12-21 12:39:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has to beat you at everything. For a long time you were the only girl in his life. Now she has to show you that he is "hers" now.
2006-12-21 12:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is just jealous of the relationship that you had with your brother and wants him all to her self. also she could just be jealous of you. hopoe thing's get better for ya'll
2006-12-21 12:40:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋