well it all started yesterday.
i was at basktball practice at an outdoor court and its like also a park. so there were some skater boys around and i said something and my coach made me run outside of the entire park. while i was running the boys were running behind me and saying things like "hey come back sexii" and im kinda used to having guys watch me when i run. well one of the girls on the team told my BF and hes mad at me. i think im going to break up with him, its not my fault.
tell me what you think i should do
2006-12-21 12:35:40 · 11 answers · asked by DanceForJoy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw i told him that it wasnt my fault
2006-12-21 13:05:40 · update #1
Hey! Cheer up! It ain't your fault. 1st thing 1st, that nosey girl whom talked behind your back to your BF is a very nasty person so keep away from her. Secondly, i think your BF isin't very understanding since you've already explained that it ain't your fault. Anyway, you've already said that u think u're gonna break up with him, so my guess is that this ain't the 1st time such things happened. It's very important to have a understanding partner or else a relationship will not work out. Right now you should tell him one more time that it is not your fault and instead tell him that he should have been more understanding. If he still refuses to cool off then i think he's not a very good BF, do what you think you shld do and move on, dun waste your time on him. Lastly, cheer up! You have a beautiful smile so flaunt it often, i can feel it from the emotions in your words.
2006-12-21 17:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ignatius corleone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well thats not a reason to break up with somebody cause he got mad. what if your bf was attracting all the girls and somebody told you that you will be like well he is attractive man but i am mad at him just cause its just a thing. however you also have to look at the girl that told him that could have twisted the story up and have it seem like you gave your number out so you should tell him the only thing you did was run and they was running behind you and just doing what boys do making noises and flirting he really more mad at the boys than you if the girl told the story right and maybe the girl that told him that wants you to break up with him then she can have your bf then you be alone for a big misunderstand better think befor you leap
2006-12-21 20:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
did u try explaining what happened? or mayb put him in those boys situations ... ask him "if u saw me running around a park and u had been skating what would u hav done? and would it hav been my fault that u did it?" and if he still doesnt understand explain to him that u dont like that he doesnt understand and that it might cause the end of ur relationship and if he still doesnt try to understand then dump him cause u deserve beta!!! Good luck!
2006-12-21 20:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing! Its not your fault and as far as your BF goes you cant make him do or not do anything. I would say this though if he is going to go this nuts over this then breaking up is a "good" thing!
2006-12-21 20:39:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should break up with him. Maybe the girl on ur team wants ur man and by breaking up ur giving her what she wants. You should talk to ur bf and make sure he knows that u don't want this attention and u want to be with him. Guys just like extra attention sometimes..lol
2006-12-21 20:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by M V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat important is communication.
but if he trust ur fren more than u, mayb u can consider to break with him.
why do u want to continue with a guy that doesnt trust u?if u dont have trust in a relationship it wont last long. mayb he forgive u for this incident but what will happen next time? same thing will keep repeating.
2006-12-21 21:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by kiko 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just talk to your boyfriend.. he'll probally understand because it wasnt your fault
2006-12-21 20:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by xoxocutiepatootie xoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea break up with him and come w/me ma......u don't need a jealous kid in ur life.....e-mail me at king_alex360@yahoo.com
He should b glad .....that other guys r loooking at you...that means ur not ugly.
2006-12-21 20:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by king_alex360 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you did'nt do anything wrong. If he still won't listen than dump him
2006-12-21 20:39:00 · answer #9 · answered by honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him
2006-12-21 20:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by Serenity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋