I'm only 16, yet i can't help but think about Sex, i mean i think of different situations w/ different people and different positions and try to find out about it on tv and mags, etc. Sometimes, nasty things come up~that no offense but I'm not comfortable telling what they are. The thing is in real life, or outside my "thoughts" I would not ever do certain things that my thoughts go to which are seriously wrong. Is it something subconscience? (Most of the time in my "thoughts" the men take over while in real life I'm strong, independent, and know at most what is wrong and what is right. Please Help : /
2006-12-21 12:32:41 · 6 answers · asked by Charnelle 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Every 16 year old is thinking about sex. You're normal.
2006-12-21 13:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by Total Eclipse Of The Sun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see that your question is asking for help. I see your situation two ways. First, it is totally normal for a person (especially at your age) to think A LOT about sexual things. It is normal and it is healthy. It's all part of the maturing process.
Secondly, however, if it is bothering you to the point that you're asking for help, ask your self this: Is this interfering with my life? That is a good way to guage if the thoughts have moved into something that could be "unhealthy", like some sort of obsession.
If the explanation that it's normal doesn't work with you, then perhaps you should talk to someone to help you sort it out. Your school counselor is the best person to talk to. The school counselor has heard this before, so you won't be shocking them. Also, your confidentiality is protected, so no one else will know what you talked about (including your parents)
Good Luck
2006-12-21 21:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by doug k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal, most teenagers go through a phase where EVERYTHING makes them think of sex. It's from all the hormones racing around in your system.
2006-12-21 20:41:10 · answer #3 · answered by FlyChicc420 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones are flooding your body. Perfectly normal and natural. Just try not to let it get out of hand.
In the meantime, enjoy your fantasies.
2006-12-21 20:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mary W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email me, lol
just kidding, but you're normal. Sex is a very primal biological urge, but DO use your head before going from fantasy to reality.
2006-12-21 20:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by loon_mallet_wielder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are a perfectly normal teenager. It's called fantasizing and it's perfectly natural.
2006-12-21 20:37:29 · answer #6 · answered by Freedspirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋