What should I do?

Question

I have this younger sister who is 15 and she still acts like a 6 year old! Except in school where she is doing very well. She follows me around asking me what I’m doing or where I'm going, she has no respect for me or my privacy, She goes through my stuff and doesn’t put it back, when she gets into trouble she blames me! But there’s more: She yells at me, sasses me, makes rude faces at me, flips me off, and on top of all that she listens in on my phone calls when I’m taking to my boyfriend!!! My parents tell me to be more patient with her and to calm down, but they don’t under stand! I feel like s***!! What should I do?!!!!

Answer 1

Ok calm down I have the same situation. every time she does something annoying Record it it in a log and show it to your mom and maybe than she will realize what kind of crap your sister does to you and how it makes you feel.


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~Justinmc93

Answer 2

That is so funny because this all brings back memmories with me and my little sister. She drove me nuts and she still does. And im 24 and she is 22 now. Honey, she will probably never grow up, like my sister hasn't and you'll have this problem forever. It sounds like she is very jealous of you. What if you like plan a day where both of you can hang out together. Go to the mall together, watch a movie. Include her in your life then she won't have any reason to bug you anymore. She just wants to be like you, that's all. Well good luck!!

Answer 3

It sounds like shes walking all over you no affiance. But I would tell your parents and ask for a door that locks from the outside and inside and i would talk on your cell phone or ask for another line.
Have a Happy Holiday.

Answer 4

Basically you need to sit your sister down and tell her that what she is doing is not acceptable.. Let her know that you love her and if she wants to hang around with you then she needs to act her age. If she does not stop then you need to show her some tough love... Stop taking her out and buying her things... Let her know that if she wants respect she needs to earn it... If she wants attention then she can't act like a child....

Answer 5

Well, talk to her about it. Let her know how you feel. But, do it in a calm and collect way. Ask her why she does those thing. See what she says. Communication is key in any type of relationship.

Answer 6

your parents are right, be a little more patient with her, may be she feels out sider by you. try to make a nice grown up conversation with her about her. try to make her to look up to you, be nice with her.
I'm sure that she loves you, she's you sister. share her anything she likes to do, try to be at her age level not yours. try to explain to her that there are some stuff which she can do with you, there are some other with her parent and different stuff with her own friends, maybe she realize how to respect your privacy
Good luck

Answer 7

She may need more attention from you just bring her a gift that you know will mean something to her and you will see that you will melt her heart because its something unexpected you could tell she looks up to you a lot

Answer 8

hi, politely tell her that she should be circling her own age group and if that doesn't work ask your parents to sit down and have a chat about privacy to her.


Diana

Answer 9

Take her to a counselor because then someone will be able to objectively hear your side and her side of the story

Answer 10

Tell your fricken sister to cut it out and annoy herrrrr!!!!!!!!!just do it idc what u think if a 15 year old does it she is very odddly weird!