ok so i was with this guy for like 2 weeks. he claimed he liked me in the beginning and suddenly ended it b/c he really was thinking about someone else the ENTIRE time (some girl who cheated on him). the whole time he played it like he was into me and i had no idea he was going to break up just like that.. and i treated him so well i took him places, i called him, got him xmas gifts, i just did so much.. i just feel strange to call him a jerk b/c i mean he couldnt help his feelings, but at the same time he should have made a better choices about the relationship. so would it be right to still be friends with this guy?
2006-12-21 12:31:02 · 8 answers · asked by alaina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you could be his friend but you might feel anger and resentment and things might become very very awkward.
2006-12-21 12:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u want to be friends? thats the real question... because if u do want to b friends then there really is no reason y u shouldnt be... sure he could hav handled the situation better but he is a guy... what do u expect? there is no point losing the friendship also... if u do then the entire relationship was a pointless waste of time... although if being friends with him is just going to make u want him bak then i suggest that u stay aqquatinces until u are completely over him and capable of being friends with him without wanting more... i know these things because i also was in this situation... i choose to be friends with him but i didnt realise that i wasnt completely over him which only caused arguements... but now that im over him he is one of the bestest friends i hav and it was totally worth it... just think about it... do u want him as ur friend? hope this helps... Good luck and God Bless
2006-12-21 20:36:54 · answer #2 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 'friend' is someone who thinks of your welfare in any situation (celebrates your accomplishments and consoles you when the chips are down). It sounds like this guy is a really good friend...to himself. Search your feelings. I bet you'll find that what you really want is not friendship; rather, to be romantically connected.
Stay away from the guy and move on.
2006-12-21 20:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by mjatthebeeb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he "claimed" he liked you. ask him if he ever really DID. if he says no forget him....he didn't care about your feelings at all. if he says yes....ask him what went wrong...but I say hes not worth it
and if you get a new boyfriend but you're still friends with him you might do the same thing he did and think of someone else
2006-12-21 20:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by hello. it's me. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest with you it sounds like you were a rebound and that he only used you. He used you to help him realized that he was still in love with the other girl. What a punc.
2006-12-21 20:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by mnmpeices 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cold still be friends but it will feel weird, It's happened to me before
2006-12-21 20:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Zacky Vengeance est.6661 :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, if you can be friends with him do so. One never has too many friends.
2006-12-21 20:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE WAS PROBLY REALLY CONFUSED...GIVE HIM A BREAK...HE'S ONLY HUMAN...IT'S GOOD THAT HE BROKE AT LEAST HE THOUGHT ABOUT IT AND BROKE IT OFF...AND YOU SHOULD BE GLAD YOU WEREN'T USED FOR A LONGER PERIOD OF TIME
2006-12-21 20:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Gordita de Oro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋