2006-12-21 12:23:07 · 13 answers · asked by ladylamp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not cheating, but I can understand how that would make you feel unappreciated. Just tell him that you want to fulfill all his fantasies and that those porn DVDs hurt your feelings, and I'm sure that he'll do something about it. I look at porn occasionally, but I wouldn't choose porn over a living, breathing, normal woman who cares about me. I don't understand guys like that. Good night!
2006-12-21 12:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is not healthy. It is an addiction behavior pattern. He is using porn to get a "high", a feeling of self-gratification, pleasure and satisfaction. Unfortunately, this addictive behavior is difficult to control. Even more unfortunate, he will begin having trouble delineating normal healthy behavior from perverted behavior. He will want to live in the porno world where woman are supposed to used as sex objects, and nothing matters in relationships except sex, and the goal in his life is to get a higher "high" on porno and sex.
It isn't considered "cheating", but it still is very damaging to the sort of relationship that we consider normal and healthy.
My recommendation is to have a serious talk about his addiction. Then tell him he is must either get rid of all porn material or seek psychological treatment.
2006-12-21 12:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal um i would say no. I would say when a guy is single its fine to have a lil porn . But when they are dating get rid of it. its just not right they shouldnt need it if they have u. It is better then cheating because its not a real person. but i would say talk to him about it if it doesnt work Dump. or take the porn away.
2006-12-21 12:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i would be just as disgusted. It means your relationship is on the rocks or he's addicted to porn. It's not normal and even though it's not physical cheating, it is a form of mental cheating.
2006-12-21 12:28:52 · answer #4 · answered by Pooge 2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My man would download porn, and it bothered me. I dont think its better than cheating, I think he has a problem. Maybe you should have a talk with him. I had a talk with my man and he agreed to stop downloading.
2006-12-21 12:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Crazy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least he is not doing it with another women he is just watching it. So if you feel unconofortable then confront him about the situation. It is better then him cheating on you.
2006-12-21 12:25:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it would personally bother me. but porn for some guys is a serious addiction and if he didn't before you meet him chances are he won't change. so either accept it or tell him it bothers you but be prepared to walk if he tells you he wont change
2006-12-21 12:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by Faye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you suggest to him that the two of you make your own dvds? That way you will always know the other woman.
2006-12-21 12:26:10 · answer #8 · answered by Flab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
porn is normall for us adult adult males, doesent propose we will cheat, if your that worried ask him shall we watch it at the same time and act out what they are doing, its good relaxing. additionally he could be desirous to strengthen the weights and get trim for you, or basically to learn self belief there is alot of rigidity in recent times on women persons and adult adult males to look there terrific. refer to him
2016-11-28 03:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by schwan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100s? Damn....my man only has 20....you're a better gf than me
2006-12-21 12:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋