i told a guy that i liked him about 2 months ago, and he liked me back, but he stopped liking me and began liking my friend. He- didnt talk to me about it at all & and just smiled at me and said hey all the time. but ever since i was kidding around with him saying he hated me at a party (where he stared at my *** and talked to me && kept smilin @me) and then after the party he was all happy && wouldnt stop talking to me to prove he didnt hate me. I also asked his best friend if he was going to ask out my friend, and he said no b/c the guy didnt like her anymore. When i asked his friend who he liked now he said "im not telling YOU" and looked me right in the eye saying you. but now i don't like him... what should i do? i want to be friends but idk how after what happened.
2006-12-21 12:18:22 · 9 answers · asked by Shelly S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your friend (who you think is mean) sounds like a lot of guys I know. In short -- hes saying he hates you despite the fact he doesn't. He is doing this because it's how he and his (guy) friends all act, and he does not know that he should change his attitude around a lady.
2006-12-21 12:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by speakfromspeakers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age people are always getting crushes and being crushed. It seems to be a rite of passage.
Okay, so after what happened you don't feel the same about him. Have you tried talking to him? Just tell him, "After what happened, you don't feel the same about him anymore". It will hurt for a while but the next thing you know, there's somebody else you're interested in.
2006-12-21 20:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you guys are hanging out as friends, and sober, comment once or twice about how great it is having him As a friend and put a little importance on the word friends. if that doesn't work then flat out tell him that you no longer like him as anything more then just a friend and sorry if that's not how he feels but it is how you feel. good luck.
2006-12-21 20:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by ~*These Blue Eyes Tell No Lies*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try being his bf. See how it is start going out. Maybe you will grow to like him alot. WHo knows but sometimes you have you have to take risks.
2006-12-21 20:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont like him like that just let what ever happen happen.... if he asks you out tell him youre sorry but you dont like him like that anymore and would still like to be just friends....thats it! its his problem that he doesnt get to go out with you...not yours....your not the one upset...lol.....i have three boys in the same class that like me and i turned them all down they have to work it out...not me.....but yeah its not your fault he likes you and you dont like him like that. just give him time and he will probably move on to a new girl. but whatever you do dont go out with him out of pitty thats just plain out wrong! hope ive helped
2006-12-21 20:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know the whole story but he seems like a player to me. it seems like he's insecure and toying with ur emotions. i wouldn't advise to act on any feelings u have for him. good luck with him and ur life!!!!!
2006-12-21 20:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by amanahill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like it is gonna be his problem. when you liked him he wanted your friend, now that he likes you, you need to tell him up front that you are not interested !!!
2006-12-21 20:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by babyboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should give him a chance and see how things turn out.
2006-12-21 20:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Q&A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the heck did u just write.....lol
2006-12-21 20:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋