2006-12-21 12:10:04 · 17 answers · asked by adam_7702081 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you don't know if you like her, wait and see how you feel about it later. or go on a "practice date" to see how it feels to you. if you don't like her, don't pretend to....it won't turn out good
2006-12-21 12:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by funkifiedfreak 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is always the best policy. If you are truly not sure if you like her in a romantic way, tell her you'd like to be friends and see where it goes from there. This way you can spend time together and get to know each other better. If you start to develop deeper feelings for her, then you'll know.
2006-12-21 12:15:40 · answer #2 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi what you should do is this, be honest with yourself and to her, if you are a friend consider her feelings because it could have turned out to be you and one find out what she is about and maybe go out and talk at times to see where he head is at and then for the most if it turns out that she is ok and you like her then go for it and if not just be honest and tell her the truth do the right thing she has feelings and honsety is the best way,
2006-12-21 12:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by YOLANDA D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can't exactly alter your feelings and suddenly decide that because she likes you you must like her in the same way. Then you're just lieing to her and yourself. So the best policy is honesty, tell her you're not interested if you're not, rather than leading her on and breaking her heart.
2006-12-21 12:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in that situation...I liked a guy, told him and he told me that he only liked me as as friend...we then started hanging out as friends...once he got to know me, he now likes me as more than a friend...so up to you if you want to see if there is anything there then tell her that ur not sure if u like her...develop a friendship and see if anything happens
2006-12-21 12:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by PEPSI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't like her at all!! the only thing is that she gives you to much attention to make herself noticeable, and because you obviously don't find, really attractive, women that give themselves to easy?If you want a relationship tell her that you are not ready(with her) and that you should remain friends..maybe knowing her personality will make it easier for you to decide :)
2006-12-21 12:23:34 · answer #6 · answered by kittybebe12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i'd say that you should spend more time with her to figure out if you like her or not. but just dont make it sound like a date or anything. have a friend arrange a "group hang" or something and have him/her invite this other girl. talk to her but don't flirt and get her hopes up. then you can decide!
2006-12-21 12:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by bluenecklace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you re not really sure dont make any move on her let her make the move on you first because thats the only fair way it works you would have done the same if you liked her first
2006-12-21 12:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her a little more; go out to dinner, bowling or something active and see if you click. If you don't, no loss...at least you got a good meal and had fun with some shiny balls! LOL!
2006-12-21 12:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by silkjoke39 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight out how you feel, but don't be harsh, but tell the truth. You know what I mean?
Just don't lead her on, and if she has a chance with you, let her know or you might lose her while making your decision.
2006-12-21 12:12:52 · answer #10 · answered by noellechoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should take time to get to know her, before you make an rash decisions, ruining it for both of you. Spend ssome time talking, then decide... But don't let her think you like her, then break her heart.
2006-12-21 12:14:42 · answer #11 · answered by Maddie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋