i like a girl and we are basically dating, we just dont speak of it as we are friends who like each other very much. the thing is, she seems to go to parties all the time and stuff like that, she is at a different school to me, in a seperate area, so we dont go to each other's parties etc, and to be honst i dont like bout 80% of my skool parties coz of the people, so i dont go to as many, this isnt the only thing, she is always out on weekends n ****, i go out most but wen i dont it feels depressing that the girl i like always has somewher to go, i feel maybe if we actaly go out she mite think im a bit lame, should i be worrying? this insecurity is affecting my confidence on making a move on her or not. plz help :]
2006-12-21 12:03:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
k, lol to the pimp one and the guy who examined my spelling, which mate was just to type faster, so dont worry. we have been close to all the doubtful answers, she invites me to her house and we get really close, to be honest i dont know why nothing has happened, which is down to me i know i just nedd to find a moment and make it happen, thanks for all the answers i woke up with 12 emails xD
2006-12-21 23:49:57 · update #1
honestly your better mate, she`ll end up with 3 kids shortly and you`ll be a better person for it with your own company.
think forward indeed.
have a great Christmas and think to the New Year, chicks will follow you.
2006-12-21 12:08:28 · answer #1 · answered by fluxpattern® 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st - How 'cool enough' is 'cool enough'?
2nd - I really do want to edit / precis and spell-check your work here ....'Skool' is spelt 'School' where you are clearly wasting your time (unless you are a Teacher!)
3rd - She might (not 'mite') think you are lame if she reads this.
4th - plz help..! I what way? want me to edit it and spell check it for you? (want help, enlist it through proper spelling, please! You get taken more seriously by a wider audience)
5th - You think it's so 'wonderful' that this girl seemingly always has somewhere to go, yes well, so the trains on the Dockland Light Railway, but they are 'robotic.' What I'm saying is that, she may well seem so wonderful and to be having a terrific time, but that's how things seem from where you are.
Remember, all advertising is made up pictures - with makeup, window dressing, stylists, hairdressers, lighting engineers and photo editing processors. And that means, what you see is what is put there for you to buy into.
Reality is something else.
- 2 for English + spelling.
5 for trying.
-2 for attention on what you ought to be focusing your attention on.
Sash.
2006-12-21 22:19:14 · answer #2 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I understand what you are saying, so here goes...
You are friends, who "like each other very much" but don't speak of it?? and she is always off doing other stuff??? What makes you think you are dating this girl? Dating involves affection and seeing each other. Neither of which you are doing. Are you sure you're just not deluding yourself?
2006-12-21 12:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well don't judge yourself too early. Guys always base relationships on looks and such and popularity. "coolness" when relationships should be judged on love and commoness between one another there inner beauty. Who cares if she doesn't wanna go to parties or if your a cooler person in highschool because what you did in highschool isn't going to matter for the rest of your life. so just deal with it. like her for her. not ur popularity.
2006-12-21 12:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by Skye 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you really like this girl so much as to try to (more or less) become someone else ? Be yourself and dont go to any lengths to be with this girl
2006-12-21 12:35:32 · answer #5 · answered by music_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your self .dont try some thing that you can't afford if yu see that she is not your type you better leave her alone. birds of same feathers flock together so its up .You can you can tell her about your problem and see if she could behave like you want but it will be diffcult to change someone from what she is.
2006-12-21 12:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just go for it. If you like her make a move before she starts seeing you as only a friend.
2006-12-21 12:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
bein a pimp, i say dat was me! jus playin homey well bein da pimpalicious playa i am then go for it. jus always have a condom ready fo shizzle peace
2006-12-21 12:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you're not doing stuff together, you're not actually ######. she doesn't actually want you anyway. if she did, she would invite you to places. try to cut her off, she how she respond's, if she likes you, she will make an effort.
2006-12-21 21:17:48 · answer #9 · answered by rjhamuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yuself that's all u can b
i know exactly wot u mean
mebe try to impress her A BIT but don't be sum1 you can't stay as
2006-12-21 12:07:55 · answer #10 · answered by weezfinder 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋