ok, i dont feel anything for girls anymore. i mean, not in that way, not gay. i just dont feel butterflys anymore, i dont "Like" anyone anymore. is it just me, or do i just need to wait and find someone. i just date girls because i think there attractive or something of that sort. like i said before, is it just me?
2006-12-21 12:02:05 · 13 answers · asked by COdy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm.....lots of possibilities here. Maybe the last Woman (or Women) you dated hurt you a lot, and you don't want to get hurt again. Maybe you are suffering from depression. Maybe you just haven't met the right person yet. Maybe you are scared of rejection. Or maybe, just maybe you want to make something a problem that isn't one. My best advice is to try to meet women in the places you tend to hang out (whether it be a club, a sport, bar, church, whatever YOU like to do) and act "as if" you ARE trying to find someone. When you find the person that is right for you, you WILL feel something. Trust me.
2006-12-21 12:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this a problem? If you are interested in someone - I'm not talking "butterflies", just you find them interesting - then spend time with them. If, over time, something more develops and your feelings change, that's great. If not, maybe you'll find some good friends. If you're tired of going out, focus on things that you like to do, even if they're solo activities. Work on your own interests, and you're likely to meet someone else who shares the same interest, who you'll enjoy being with.
2006-12-21 20:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by SL_SF 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One day you'll get over the feelings you have right now. It's not necessary to like someone all the time. Maybe you just need to wait for that special someone. In my opinion, going out with different girls is fine.
2006-12-21 20:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by Juanitamarie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I felt this way for a while until I found the girl I'm in love with right now. You just haven't came upon a girl you truely want to live your life with yet. Wait for it!
2006-12-21 20:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not just you. you probably don't get the butterflies anymore because you haven't met the person you're supposed to be with yet. it'll just take time. eventually you'll find someone special and the butterflies will return.
2006-12-21 20:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by Rebekah 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you know exactly what your looking for and have yet to cross her path. God will bring you whom he thinks is right for you when he thinks your ready for her. Its ok to be single and not like everyone. Perhaps you should just love yourself and make yourself happy for now and stop looking and then shell just come to you, and youll know it because youll have those butterflies again.
2006-12-21 20:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude , relax and smell the fresh air a little bit.
2006-12-21 20:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just havent found the right girl. date around and one day you'll fall in love.
2006-12-21 20:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont feel anything either, its usally one night stands. then i am a girl.
2006-12-21 20:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by death_of_faries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love will find you when love is ready....
2006-12-21 20:07:46 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋