This boy asked me out, but i said yeah just b/c i was lonely!! then as we kept going out i started to like him and we went out for like 2 wks and he broke up with me... and i didn't even see it comin... i heard he went out with another girl like 4 days after we broke up.. and i told we could still be friends, but now when he says hi to me and i hug him sometimes i feel like cryin!! 3 more boyz asked me out after, but i told them no just b/c i still have feelings for my ex.. WAT SHOULD I DO??!!!!
2006-12-21 11:51:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're pathetic. You should go out with the other guys. It'll keep your mind off the other guy. You said you didn't like your "ex" at first, if you can even call the guy your ex. You just missed out on 3 chances to make something happen with 3 potential guys who could have turned out great. Keep missing those chances, and you will end up all alone and old, and you will die alone. Think about that.
2006-12-21 12:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately, I know the saying time doesn't always mean how much you care for someone. But it was only two weeks. By all means go out with one of these other guys. Remember you yourself said you weren't even that interested in him at first. So give these other guys a chance. One of they may be much more worthy to be on your mind. Forget about that guy he's not worth thinking about. He's moved on and so should you. God bless you, and you won't blow away. Whatever doesn't kill us makes us stronger remember this. This was actually a good experience for you, I know it doesn't seem like it now. But someday you'll look back and realize you've grown from this.
2006-12-21 19:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can be hard, sometimes it can take a pretty good while to get over someone when you have feelings for them, but over time it usually does get better and those feelings do to some extent go away, but for the time being if he definitely doesn't want to be in a relationship with you then i would just move on to someone knew, that will probably also help you to forget about him faster....
2006-12-21 19:56:20 · answer #3 · answered by Justin M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. Maybe he still likes you too. But if he is over you, then you have to move on. Three other guys asked you out. Give them a chance. Maybe going out with one of them will help you forget about your ex. There's no use chasing him if you know you'll never have a chance.
2006-12-21 20:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this kind of pain all too well...you just have to let him go. I know, it's easier said than done, but if he's able to move on so quickly regardless of the time frame of your relationship, you also deserve to get out there and have fun with new people. At least you've been offered dates...usually after my breakups I'm left in the dark and cold for a very looooonnnnnggggg time...you're lucky! Take advantage of it.
2006-12-21 19:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by silkjoke39 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if this will work for you or not, but i've had to do this in the past. whenever something like that happens to me i just try to avoid the guy. and if you can't avoid him because you're still gonna be friends with him just try to not think about him as much. have some fun, go out with your friends. do anything to keep your mind off him. it'll take time, but eventually you'll move on.
2006-12-21 20:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by Rebekah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, obviously he doesn't want u so just remember that and keep that in ur head so u can move on then when ur ready go with someone else but next time make sure u make a decision that ur happy with at first
2006-12-21 19:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need time... and you really should stop seeing him. The sight of him will just rekindle ur feelings for him... its a vicious cycle... endless! Give yourself some timeoff... you need it. As for the other 3 boys... just let them wait for a while... if they value you... they will wait. Good things are worth waiting for isn't it ? : )
2006-12-21 19:57:49 · answer #8 · answered by Chips 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u firstly need 2 try to hang out with the boys who asked u out..maybe on eof them can attract you n he could be even better than your ex..
2006-12-21 19:54:48 · answer #9 · answered by evax_ian626 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww, give the other guys a chance, you may like them better and it will show your ex that you don't need him, play hard to get, girl! Good Luck!!
2006-12-21 19:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by barefootmodel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋