People always tell me I would be happy if I had a girlfriend. I think not. I have an aniety about asking girls out, and I can't get rid of it. If some girl likes me, too bad. I won't ever ask any girl out. I don't need a girl to give me stress in my life. I wouldn't want anyone to see me in love, as I want to look like a tough guy, and make people think that I don't care about anyone, which is true, and tough guys don't love, and they don't let women get in the way. I would feel like a fool giving a girl a gift or something, plus I don't like giving people gifts. Plus, if I had a family, in the future, I would have to work to support them, which will be harder than supporting myself, alone. I might as well live alone, in Hawaii, and not have anyone to stress me out. I don't like kids, and I don't need any female influence in my life.
2006-12-21 11:51:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And I'm not gay, thank you.
2006-12-21 11:56:53 · update #1
And I don't want anyone to love me.
2006-12-21 11:59:16 · update #2
I could never let my feelings out to someone else.
2006-12-21 11:59:59 · update #3
The girl would probably laugh at me if I told her my feelings.
2006-12-21 12:00:31 · update #4
I will make it so my mind doesn't try to make me love someone.
2006-12-21 12:03:03 · update #5
You are on your way to becoming a man who gets more a*ss than a toilet seat. The less you care, the more they will flock to your knees and give you free BJ's. You got the right idea. Don't let any woman tell you what to do. You be your own guy. You don't have to be in a relationship with any of them. You can just have sex with them. There's nothing wrong with that.
2006-12-21 12:06:47 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're single, a heat-seeking bachelor, committed to no one in particular, able to party like John Belushi and sleep until noon with no one underfoot to tell you to do otherwise. It's a great life, and why shouldn't it be? These days, there's no real social pressure to get married right out of high school or college, you can easily get laid without saying, "I do," and most people are waiting until much later to tie the knot, anyway.
The benefits of staying single can be great. You can do what, when, and where you want to do what you want to do. You can focus on your career, you can build your wealth, and best of all, you don't have to COMPRIMISE. The thing is, your still building up who you are as a person, and that goes at different paces for everyone. Some are ready for committment at 18 to someone, and others might not committ to someone until 40! Heck, maybe never.
While relationships and marriage may provide certain benefits, when you choose to stay single, you're keeping the door open for many more options and opportunities in your life. Your male independence is something you should never surrender lightly, even if you think you've met the girl of your dreams. So think twice (or maybe three times) before you take that long walk down the aisle. But if you're still not sure about staying single, here's one last reason, you don't have to worry about in-laws.
2006-12-21 20:26:19 · answer #2 · answered by TheRealHitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough guys love, and dont you ever want to be taken care of or touched, kissed, fondled? if you never have a girlfriend then u'll prob never hav sex. Girls arent that bad or scary. Just go to a library or supermarket or something and ask a girl out, if they say no, then no biggie. you wont see them again. Go do this in a different town and then u will def not see them again, and if you do who cares?
2006-12-21 19:56:27 · answer #3 · answered by 0_0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask me why you should have a girlfriend, it doesn't matter. It's your life, although you're only pretending in order to conceal your true feelings. I would say that you're very young or very immature, when you get older and more mature you'll learn how to ask women out, and fyi, there is more to women than making babies...maybe THAT's the real problem you have...
2006-12-21 19:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you on some things. I too never want to get married and I probably won't ever have kids, but I don't separate myself from everyone either. Your life is yours to live, but if that's your philosophy then I think you are going to be pretty lonely.
2006-12-21 19:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by Angela B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hate for you to get a girlfriend too because after reading this you sound gay. Find a man!!or in your case a boy your own age!
2006-12-21 19:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by Grown Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl I'm after is the only reason for me 'living' if someone were to ask me.
2006-12-21 20:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats just how you feel about it then follow your instincts. No one can stop you from what you want to make your life of. Its good you can speak up for what you think will benefit you.
Best of wishes,
*Soccer Fan*
2006-12-21 19:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by Pre lives on 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comin from a woman u sound pretty selfish!!!!! and women or girls could make men or boys very happy u just have to make sure u pick the right girl for u..
2006-12-21 19:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by kandiiez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol you sound like so many guys that I know. You don't NEED a girlfriend but you just wait one day you'll meet a girl as a friend then your feelings will grow and your attitude will change, it happened to almost every one of them.
2006-12-21 19:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by little sister 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋