Im talkin to this girl I like and the thing that everybody hates shows up, "the silence", so could you girls just tell me some topics you girls like to talk about so the "silence" doesn't show up as often and so we also have something to talk while we walk or ride on my car and she has fun
2006-12-21 11:46:13 · 14 answers · asked by Diaz 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I really like this girl because this kind of stuff has never hapenned to me before with my EX-s, I get really nervous with her
2006-12-21 12:15:53 · update #1
Girls talk for a different reson than guys. Girls want to make a connection. So talk about people, events and good gossip. That should get her going and keep it going.
2006-12-21 13:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her how her day has gone, then talk to her about how ur day went with ups and downs included. Then talk to her about ur past, and ask her about HER past. What did u do as a child?.. stuff about U, UR life. Well, that's what matters.
oxox,
Good Luck,
Lil' Lion
p.s. And listen 2 MY advice, never forget her or fall out of love for her because u need conversation, silence is a treasure 2. And don't forget her if u don't see her 4 2 weeks!, haha.
2006-12-21 21:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Golden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes silence is better than being tongue-tied. You should be yourself, go out with her, spend time together and you will be un-nervous soon - practice makes perfect ! Subjects: School, futures: college or job, music, movies, books, what is the war in Iraq about? Once you get started its hard to stop
2006-12-21 21:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by teriod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she likes to read then books would be a good choice, movies, music, something interesting you learned. ( well at least I think that's a good one, since it shows me that a guy is interested in learning and knowledge) finding humor in the little things in life but it really depends on what she's interested in. But wishing you best of luck!! Merry Christmas!!
2006-12-21 20:26:44 · answer #4 · answered by thehillsarealive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she has animals.. then they are most likly a big part in her life talk good things about them and ask her some things about them and i u have them to tell her some of the funny things they do.... say only good things about her family and ask how they are doing often... compliment her beauty but never just say how pretty her eyes are... total cheesy pick up line (all guys use it) tell her she looks nice (clothes wise) but never act like u wanna get in her pants.... good luck and i hope this helped you!
2006-12-21 21:05:19 · answer #5 · answered by elf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls love to talk when you really show intrested in something she does she can go on and on now silence so ask questions until that one just get her going
2006-12-21 20:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by lovely baby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can ask her thing like what do you like to do for fun? Ummm.. Tell me about yourself, childhood, friends, etc. What are you looking for end a man (turn on and turn offs)<--thats very important. :-D
2006-12-21 20:27:35 · answer #7 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most girls like it when guys ask them about them. Girls like to talk about themselves alot. Like, I like it when a guy will ask me what my favorite color, animal, TV show etc. is. Hope this helps!
~Rachey
2006-12-21 20:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its true. when all else fails have a conversation about them. don't let it go too far cause then all they'll do is talk about themselves next time you're with them. but it sure gets them talking and smiling.
good luck. be nice.
2006-12-21 20:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her stuff like what's her favorite movie, or favorite book and stuff like that, I'm a geek I love talking about stuff like that.
2006-12-21 20:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋