I have been talking to this guy for six months and in the beginning i wanted a relationship with him, but we werent ready I have been talking to him and doing things for him, and we act like a couple but we aren't and I just dont kno what to do. Should I stop talking to him and give up or keep going, he doesnt express his feelings, but when I ask him how he feels about me he says his feelings hasnt changed he still likes me but I dont know how much he liked me before. What should I do?
2006-12-21 11:39:45 · 13 answers · asked by peanutbabi2003@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What if I tryed to dump him and he i wasnt succesful, and he if he doesn't try to get me back when I dump him does that mean he didnt want me anyway? He is a really honest person so i feel like if he didnt want me he would tell me and not deal with me.
2006-12-21 11:55:12 · update #1
he has no other girlfriend, but he does have friends.
2006-12-21 11:58:30 · update #2
Don't rush it. 6 months is not that long. Marriages that last are built on friendships. Focus on being his friend, not his girlfriend. Don't rush him or pressure him, you just might loose him. If in 6 more months it has not gone anywhere, then begin to ask him if he sees the relationship getting serious. Whatever he says, take it as face value. Men don't hint like women do. If he says he sees himself in a serious relationship with you, that is how he feels. If he says he doesn't see it getting serious, believe it and see him only as a good friend.
2006-12-21 11:45:44 · answer #1 · answered by Cheyne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage please, that's not society today, get over it. And the guy is playing you, he just wants sex. I would say at least 3 months before sex, but i mean if things REALLY click earlier is fine. You sound young, if you are life 13 or something don't have sex yet. Wait until at least 16 or 17, I know how hard it is to wait these days, some people are ready young (everyone says they are) and some aren't ready till there 20. The average age is 16 or 17, in my opinion.
2016-03-29 03:07:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar situation, except longer. I've liked this guy since I met him last spring but he had a girlfriend. They broke up over the summer after dating for four years and obviously he wanted nothing to do w/ dating after that. I really, really like him so I am willing to wait. If you really like this guy then you need to have a long talk w/ him. If there are reasons, give him time, if not, put it all on the table. Explain your feelings and how something needs to happen or not happen. If he does not want anything to happen, it may be a good time to start trying to move on. Good luck
2006-12-21 11:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months is not a long time. Men, especially men coming right out of another relationship (don't know if this is the case with you) may act this way with another woman. He is being cautious. Just look at all the things he does or doesn't do for you or how he acts towards you in every way and go with your gut feeling. If you think he is not serious and you want to be serious, move on.
2006-12-21 11:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling him one more time how you feel about him and explain that he's either going to be with you or you need to find someone who does want to be with you. Let him talk. No matter how long it takes for him to spit it out, you wait and let him answer no matter how nervous you are. Make him be crystal clear about how he feels. If he's vague and you can't get an answer from him, just move on. If he cares enough about you, he will let you know. In the mean time, you would need to move on. Good Luck!
2006-12-21 11:43:53 · answer #5 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I may be wrong. But, I was in a similar situation. Turns out, he preferred guys. Just a thought.
2006-12-21 11:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Straight up ask him. Hes playing games and you shouldnt have to wait around for him. Theres someone out there better for you.
2006-12-21 11:42:13 · answer #7 · answered by g00dapple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a relationship like this...they want you to "do what you do", whatever that includes, and get away without having to be committed. RUN!
2006-12-21 11:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by jnmhuddleston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl friend leave him, he is stranging you along for gifts and other things if you know what I mean!
2006-12-21 11:42:55 · answer #9 · answered by wenwen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you.
2006-12-21 11:47:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋