if u liked someone and they told u they backoff from gettin serious b/c they have "commitment issues" would u backoff or would u still wanna be w/ them?
2006-12-21 11:37:18 · 7 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think I would still go with them and see if I could change their mind, because you never know, if you really find someone you could relate to and if you find someone you love you won't have commitment issues. So take a chance, you never know, what's the worst that could happen? You could not only change your life, but change that other person's life too.
2006-12-21 11:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by p.j 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
At least the person is honest. You should be as well.
First, be honest with yourself. Are you looking for a one-on-one relationship that requires a personal commitment? If so, you have been warned. Back off or prepare to get hurt. If you can accept that this person may have others in his life, then proceed with caution. Someone besides yourself may be picked as the person to form a commitment.
Next, be honest with him (I am assuming you are a Gal and he a Guy, but realize that this might not be the case). If you are still interested, tell him. Your relationship might be what is required to allow him to understand what a commitment is.
Above all be open and honest. Communication is the key to any lasting relationship.
2006-12-24 15:37:48 · answer #2 · answered by Richard 7 · 13⤊ 0⤋
If they are telling you to back off don't bother or annoy him/her. Just be friends with the person for now and you can bring up the topic later.
2006-12-21 19:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by Justin K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be with them and take one day at a time, if they really want to be with you, they'll slowly commit. Don't push it and don't run from it.
Good Luck!!
2006-12-21 19:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by barefootmodel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if he's REALY cute, you should always exept your crushes the same way you exept your family. wait...nvm
2006-12-21 19:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by Jaiden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go for it cause you are gonna end up getting hurt so in my opinion i wont go that route and i hope you dont
2006-12-21 19:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by MIZZAMERICAOF2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be a way of telling you they don't want a relationship
2006-12-21 19:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋