* we are living together in one roof for a year now
*things changed a little
*he always criticized me and always ind my faults
*he backfire my past
*he talked to me too much that he even doesn't care if i was terribly hurt
*time, love ,care, patience,understanding 100% i gave it ti him
*i lost my self respect..coz all i know is to love him
*we had a fight if he was drunked
* i was mentally and physically battered ( ilose my count)
*he always put all the blame on me
*he never say sorry to me
*my friends wanted to let him go;they doesn't like him at all because he hit me
*now, i let him go but deep within me i wanted him to stay.
*he asked to stay for ameantime while he is lookingfor a new apartment
* he told me that he wanted to stay, and start all over again.
* i'm a nurse. he was a coca cola sales man
* i'm confused now.... help.
2006-12-21 11:36:37 · 5 answers · asked by alone927 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Previously..i would suggest you both to talk and you tell him how much he has hurt you and then you go for a time-out to clear-up ur mind and make ur decision either to take him back or dump him. Then...i read that he hit you. No...cant. A man who hit a woman in a relationship is abusive and please trust me; you wont be happy to take him back.
Please dump him, you will be heart broken, but it will heal. And one day later, you will meet someone much better than this abusive man; someone who truly love and care about you.
2006-12-21 11:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what i read, i felt dat tis guy doesn't love u at all. U should ask him 2 leave. Tis guy hit u once, he'll hit u twice n dat will never end. To my advice, leave him. He'll never be a good boyfriend nor a husband. Leave him 4 good or u suffer in future. If u wanna chat more wif mi, E-mail mi, icycoolz78@yahoo.com.sg
2006-12-21 11:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by icycool 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should let him go and move on. It is hard to let someone go that you love, but if he cannot respect you and your feelings, he won't change. The only one to make you happy is you. Seems he is selfish and thinking of only him. A partner is suppose to be there and lean on, not hurt feelings.
There are plenty of fish in the sea, and you will come across someone who will treat you the way you should be treated....with respect.
2006-12-21 11:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by Trese 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is puuting you down so much, that you have to ask a question. "he is definetly NOT WORTH IT!!" You want the man of your dreams, CLEARLY he's making you're life a nightmare!!!
LET HIM GO!!!!
2006-12-21 11:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by Live.Laugh.Grow 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him go..he's not worth for your love...open ur eyes and go find a new man..
2006-12-21 11:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by ilikeroses 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋