I'd like to try some toys with my boyfriend but I don't want to seem dirty. Any advice?
2006-12-21 11:36:14 · 37 answers · asked by sexy babe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it will seem dirty, but maybe he will like it!! I have done it before. It can be fun for us girls.....if your b/f doesn't like it, he will let you know and then you will know not to do it again.
2006-12-21 11:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First you talk to him about toys and if they interest him. If he likes the idea of the two of you playing, then you can go together and pick something out. You may find something that you are both into without it being dirty. Second if the two of you do find something you have fun with what you found. Sex can be fun with or without toys. There are some fun toys out there! Enjoy!
2006-12-21 11:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by Alena F 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just happen to notice the ads in say the Playboy or any other magazine heck even the publisher's clearing house has ads for therapeutic vibrators...start a conversation and work around to if he has ever played with some "aids" if he seems at least open mention your own "aid" and invite him to try using it during the next session..if that goes well you can work another into your sex life and then another.. but if he rejects the use of any you will have to continue sneaking behind him or find a more open partner....I would suggest the partner change unless this is his ONLY flaw...
2006-12-21 11:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
me and my husband has fun fun fun when it comes down to that first thing first you need to finds out what drives your man wild and go from their. Me and my husband have tried a lot of thing for ex 1 Watch flix and pick up some of their techniques and find the one he likes the best 2 bring the kitchen into the bed room Chocolate, whip cream, strawberries, peaches ect. have fun with it 3 dress up and roll play -cops and robbers-naughty little school girl ect. 4 go to the local s** shops and by things that make you wonder 5 let him bring toys in the bed room that is fun as well good luck hope this helps
2016-03-29 03:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all in your atitude. If you are sneaky and freaked out he will pick up that vibe. If you act confident, then it will prolly be a cool new adventure for both of you. So if you already got one , pull it out and say like " Check this out" when hes in a good mood. If you think he'l have any issues or if you do not have one say "What do you think of trying this...?" Good luck to you. I don't think its dirty though, but with some role playing it would be fun to be a dirttygurrl
2006-12-21 11:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by ssunfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you bring toys into the bedroom and your in a relationship with this person there is nothing wrong with that.....but i dont think its dirty at all just tell our partner you want to try new things and see what he says.....Good luck
2006-12-21 11:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by lovher 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should try to have fun with it. Try some toys like furry handcuffs, vibes, and flavored lubes. Look for toys that seems fun...not the ones with obscene or vulgar pictures in the packaging. I like the toys at WantSomeCandy?
2006-12-21 11:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by kristine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start small. Little novelty toys at first. Although I would think it would be cool if you brought in some kind of diesel powered fully automated dildo with computer controlled stimulants, most would be freaked out by that. take him to a sex shop and have him pick them out.
2006-12-21 11:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by Helenp 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ha. I don't think the guy will mind.. in fact he might even like it a little dirty. What is there to be worried about? Hhahahaha have fun!!!
2006-12-24 07:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not about you or the toys. It's totally about how he feels. If he's turned off, you won't be able to change that. If he's not, he will probably really enjoy it. I think a lot of his attitude comes from his upbringing. Any hints there?
2006-12-21 11:39:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋