i liked this girl, liked her a lot., she knew it too, she didnt whana go out and i was ok, but these days when ever i talk to her weather phone or msn. she keeps talking abou this other guy, and i hate that cause she knew i liked her y does she have to keep saying that guys name and talking about him... What should i Do?
2006-12-21 11:33:52 · 24 answers · asked by Boss 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, I'm going to tell you a story about when I was an inconsiderate teenager myself. There was this guy Teddy who finally after 3 years told me he liked me. I told him he was a really nice guy buy I only liked him as a friend. Then I was a total jerk and said, "hey you know your friend Jeremy? Would you see if he likes me?" Yes I actually did that. Looking back I was a total *****. But I didn't really realize it at the time. So, it could be possible that this girl doesn't realize how what she is saying is affecting you. She thinks of you like a friend, and that's how she's talking to you. Later when she grows up, she realize that she was inconsiderate too
2006-12-21 11:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Smitten_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either she loves this other guy or she's worrying that you are trying to get with her and she doesn't want you. She knows what you already said, but if you are still acting like you want more than friendship, this is probably her way of letting you know, she's not into you without actually having to say it. Back off.
2006-12-21 11:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her it bothers you. She might say that she doesn't care if it bothers you or not. But truly - if you want or need something from somebody (and in this case you want her to stop talking about another guy) - then you must tell them - and not just assume that they know they are hurting you. Once you've told her - if she continues the behavior - well then - you know where you stand with her.
2006-12-21 11:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you don't care about that other guy she talks about. And if she wants to brag about him go and brag to someone else because you don't want to hear it. If the girl is obviously interested in the other guy you should give up on her. I know it might be hard but it is stupid to like a girl who wants to make you jealous.
2006-12-21 11:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by Justin K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should accept that you are only her friend. She talks about the other guys because she thinks you are "safe" to chat with about those kinds of things. When a girl is interested in you, she focuses on you, not other people.
Good luck!
2006-12-21 11:41:03 · answer #5 · answered by T S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,
You have a bad case of lovesick blues. Come out of it. This girl sounds like she considers you a good friend and that is all. She wants a friend like you to talk to and tell things to. Consider yourself nothing more. One thing you could try and maybe it would and maybe not but treat her like a friend and get yourself a real girlfriend. GOOD LUCK & HAPPY HOLIDAYS
2006-12-21 11:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by mammafran77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be a jerk, but be very standoffish when she mentions him. Dont anwer her questions if you dont have to, and dont offer any advice. Make it seem to her as if she's talking to a brick wall. But be fully into her conversations when she's not talking about him. She'll eventually get it. If she asks, tell her straight up how it is.
2006-12-21 11:37:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on her personality and age she probally trying to make you jealous. Act like you don't care and just say thats cool or he seems like a real cool guy. It sometimes works and i it dosent stop just try to move on, or get a another girl to make her jealous
2006-12-21 11:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww I'm sorry but by the sounds of it she really likes this other guy. I'm really sorry hunn but you should find someone else or make a plan to win her over.
2006-12-21 11:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her what you feel like and may be why she keeps talking aobut him is cause she may think of you as a firend not a boyfriend
2006-12-21 11:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by Chevy Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋