He never calls her unless he wants her to "come over" nor will he introduce her to his neighbors, friends or co-workers. but he brought her home to meet the family. He used to take her out a spoil her and after she slepted with him he did a 360 turn around. and half the time he's talking about how she is one day going to make someone very happy, then the next moment he'll tell her that she's the best thing that ever happened to him. And recently he just got back from a trip and now he's been telling her that he loves her and actually cares about we (her family) thinks of him.
yet he's said that he'll call her as soon as he gets off of work and finally she calls him to see if he's okay and he said that he didn't have time to call her because he was calling his other friends then went to sleep.
So i need a second voice in this, is it just me?
2006-12-21 11:31:17 · 13 answers · asked by little sister 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is being an as&. If the couple is young they will face problems. Younger males tend to enjoy the sex part and not the realtionship part, though he may seem undecied he is just trying to work out his feelings.
2006-12-21 11:38:15 · answer #1 · answered by Dr.Neo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I assume she is a grown woman, unless he is beating her then you really should let her work it out on her own and mind your business. If you push too hard, you will only alienate her and make her defend him more and take his side over you and the family's. Just wait it out and see.
2006-12-21 11:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by Cara P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to be over protective of her. He sounds like a total jerk. After he slept with her, it seems like he was done with her and doesn't really care about her anymore. Its time for your sister to cut her loses and move on
2006-12-21 11:36:29 · answer #3 · answered by triste_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a normal guy and not an ***. She's just making herself to available and should have sense enough to see that your brother doesn't really care for her. Or maybe she's desperate. Maybe she likes it. If she doesn't like it, it's up to her to decide how she wants to be treated.
2006-12-21 11:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems kinda flakey to me. Doesn't seem like anything serious though. A lot of guys are like this.
2006-12-21 11:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by g00dapple 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is most definetely an A**! Tell your sister to dump him.
2006-12-21 11:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by girlieGIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a douchebag but if she loves him.... she has to figure it out for herself.
2006-12-21 11:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jenine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
idk...it seems like sometimes hes fine and others hes not...its like he has 2 personalities or something...he doesnt seem very trustworthy
2006-12-21 11:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by igotalltheanswers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let your sis work her own thing out. she'll only leave when she's had enough
2006-12-21 11:34:12 · answer #9 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Id butt out of it.
2006-12-21 11:34:45 · answer #10 · answered by Mayonaise 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋