Do guys want to have sex with a virgin or with someone experienced? Both have their pro's and cons?
guys any input?
2006-12-21 11:28:34 · 25 answers · asked by 0_0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
definitely a virgin... i prefer a virgin... coz i don't want girls to just forget me after we do it... i want to make a record in her mind... :) i want to always be remembered... and i guess girls never forget their first time... :) but i'm also game for the experienced ones to learn new things, styles, psitions etc... :)
2006-12-21 11:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by ajsavior 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Both are great, honestly. A virgin is like a video game that you beat before your friends did or being the best football player(poor comparisons), but being the first is always a thing guys try to achieve in anything. The experienced girls, however offer a variety of bonuses that a virgin wouldnt be able to, like taking the fun to a whole new level, so to say.
2006-12-21 11:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether a guy is drawn to someone or not. I would think most guys who are looking for someone to spend the rest of their life with would want a girl who is a virgin and not one who is promiscuous. I would want someone like this. Marriage is something that should be cherished by each party and to the fullest extent. As for experience, it comes with the territory and the more intimacy between a couple the more experience is gained. Most girls who have had sex with many partners do not think much of marriage because of the fact that they have already cheapened themselves without even knowing it. A guy who has principles would not want to cheapen sex at all. I know the guys that I am friends with wouldn't.
2006-12-21 11:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a virgin girl has fresh sexual mind and body. it attracts guys as a sexual matter. but virgin girls are not experienced and some afraid of making love. it disturbs the sex and bothers men.
experienced women know what they want and what they should do. it makes a great feeling during sex. then let me give you the best answer:
a very young girl who is not virgin and has not spent a long time from her virginity and enough experienced to do her best in the bed is the dream of each guy.
2006-12-23 23:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by mhrhashemi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy wants to have sex with any woman that is breathing, virgin or not... but they want the lady they marry to have been a virgin the first time they did it. Guys just want sex... they brag about the virgins they deflowered and all the conquests they've had. Then when it comes time to marry, they expect her to be that virgin. It's a double standard.
Guys that have many partners are studs. Girls that have many partners are sl*ts.
If you are a virgin, stay that way....make the guy you give it to...earn your love and your virginity. Hopefully through committment.
2006-12-21 11:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think most guys would feel more comfortable having sex with someone who's been there, done that, so to speak. How about the girls, do you prefer a virgin or a ho? Having sex is something that's considered "naughty" and you don't want to do that with someone who's a virgin.
2006-12-21 11:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, it's like this, virgins are not good at sex because they've never done it before. So if you're looking at it in an abstract way, most guys want to have sex with someone who's good at sex.
However, it's really really really stupid to have sex with people just to get experience.
Not only that, but just because you did something that one guy likes, doesn't mean the next guy will like the same thing. So experience only gets you so far. Guys like to have sex with people who know how to do what they like to do.
2006-12-21 11:37:19 · answer #7 · answered by man_from_conniemara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i will like to have sex with some one that know what there doing but it is better with a virgin because you know gonna through the same or near the same pain and emotion you going through and it's better to do it to a virgin because it's better if ya'll lose ya'll know you lost it with eachother instead of been second in line as the sex goes but the virgin has to know how to put on the condom and know what they doing at times they could get a little confuse but make it sexy u feel me dont stop keep going and smile with it I'm still a virgin that's just my opinion
2006-12-21 11:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most guys want a virgin cause #1 they know she won't have STDs, #2 they get to be her 1st experience which is something special. As for having a experience lover, that can be exciting to some guys, but I would think most prefer the adventure of learning how to have great sex with their virgin girl :)
2006-12-21 11:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I'm not a guy but I think guys prefer virgins. They feel like they conquered the world when they take a girl's virginity.
2006-12-21 11:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by Lorraine_us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. Also, many guys will shy away from virgins because they think they will never get any from them. Being a first for a girl would be a very special moment for me. Demonstrates that she held out for you!
2006-12-21 11:39:28 · answer #11 · answered by meaningtoask 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋