ok heres my thing....i've talked to this guy nick for the last 2 years but ive never met him in life so i guess u could call him my online b/f. Hes cool crazy and just like me in too many ways to count...but see now i feel like im missing out on my high school years u know the dating the dances the flirting all of that....and i dont know if i should ruin what i have with this amazingly awesome guy to maybe get rejected by people at my school or just keep things the way they are and miss out on maybe having a b/f here with me! what do i do?!?
♥arianna:nicole
2006-12-21 11:23:20 · 16 answers · asked by arianna:nicole♥™ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are stupid. You are an example of a person bound by ridiculous rules put on you by society. It's OK to have 2 boyfriends. What is the matter with you?!?!? Have fun. You will regret this for the rest of your life if you don't make the most out of your high school years.
2006-12-21 11:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're in high school! You don't need to be so serious about just 1 person. Besides, obviously if you feel you are missing out, then this relationship is not meeting your needs. Yes, you should look for a boyfriend at your school (or in your town). Go to dances, flirt with guys, go on dates. But be honest with your online guy, and be honest with the new guys that come along. When it's time for you to choose, then you'll have to make a decision.
2006-12-21 19:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, you basically just gave yourself the answer. you are wasting your high school (and life) away. there is no way that anything is going to come out of this so called "relationship" and you may be hurting any other guys that might like you but you like some guy that you've never met. what would you do if the guy you liked didn't pay attention to you because he has a girlfriend he's never met?
2006-12-21 19:29:13 · answer #3 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Anrianna, I think you should get real. The cyber world can be very seductive and it can be very misleading. Get yourself and real person right next to you. Enjoy your school dating, not only are they fun, they also teach you a lot about real people. The "amazing awesome guy" will be there when you turn your computer on., he is not going anywhere. He has the safety of the internet to protect him from making a real commitment.
2006-12-21 19:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by justhelping 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet people you can actually see. how do you know this guy is for real? and are you guys even really dating???the whole point of dating is doing things together not over the internet. you are missing out on your best years to learn and grow as a person in regards to dating.
2006-12-21 19:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look some online relationships work but they are few and far between and just cause he is the one online he might not be like that in life. Try to meet him. See what he is really like ask his friends or family what he is like. Don't let something pass u by though because Mr. Right could be right there in ur own town.
2006-12-21 19:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by bambii_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never rely on an online person. How do you know hes not flirting and dating in real life? You should just go on with your life and if you ever meet this guy ...then great but you shouldnt put your life on hold for someone you havent met.
2006-12-21 19:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by g00dapple 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're in school still. Go date tangible guys at your school and forget the Internet!
What you don't realize is that people can pretend to be whomever they want on here. This guy is merely a shaddow and someone you'll probably not meet.
2006-12-21 19:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by CeeBee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your real life, and keep the online friendship. He doesn't have to know the details about your real-life affairs; it would be unreasonable of you to withdraw into an "online" world fully. Enjoy the best both worlds have to offer, but don't overdo it.
2006-12-21 19:26:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and date.
have fun . enjoy the real meaning of dating and life. Love
If you don't . you will only have an on line marriage..
2006-12-21 19:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋