The first time?

Question

What is sex like for the fist time?

Answer 1

For a guy it is not going to be painful, basically your just going to be nervous..

Now, for a girl it might hurt. It hurt my first time... I didn't bleed until my 3rd time. So, take it slow, abd do it with someone you like instead of doing it with an asshole that I compltely regret still till this day...

And Remember... Use a condom!!!

Answer 2

I saved myself for my wedding night. I felt safe with my Sweetie, and was unafraid to be vulnerable. It felt like being half of a beating heart - it was natural, and perfect.

My Sweetie, who had experimented as a lot as a teen, walked into that night with insecurity, and a sense of impurity. My sweetie didnt have the same experience.

Having something taken away is not the same as giving that something away, and each can only be done once. If you do it using the other person as a glove with which to try to feel good, and not with them deeply loving, caring for, and trusting you, it is a radically different and darker experience. The choices you make change you, and if you chose to use a person as a glove, instead of treating them like a person it changes both who you are and who you can be... it darkens you. Personhood is different than being meat.

Every person is like a fingerprint, or a snowflake - utterly unique. When you are truly in love, not just in lust, or just experimenting, and when you are truly committed to each other for life, then your relationship is constantly walking toward each other, constantly wooing each other, constantly pursuing each other... its fitting yourself to their self and vice versa.. its practicing to fit each other into the others fingerprint. You cant practice that with other people.. in fact practice on "strangers" builds expectations and shapes in you that resist that continual integration.

One third of all parents are single parents. If you are experimenting, it is very likely that whatever it is like for the first time, there will come a time when you hate with all your being that you ever had a first time, and you wish to God that could undo the choices and actions you did.. and you cant.

Make the choices that give you more choices later on, and less regrets. Dont make the choices that take away future choices and give you future regrets.

Answer 3

I wish I knew T_T *20 and still without sex lol* Probably painful for the girl cause virgins have hymens..... And from what i read it will hurt the first few times for the girl but that gradually dies down. For the guy it's nothing but good I would think lol

Answer 4

Its hard to say in words. But if you had to put it in words it would be like excitement,confusion, exhiliration and unbelievable. Its a little awkward because, it feels strange being inside someone, its kinda like putting on a shoe but a million times better. Bliss. It wasnt sloppy or messy for me but instead beautiful. but it was because I was having sex with an angel...OMJJJJJ She freakin banged me up and down upside down side ways! ahhhhhhhH Im gonna find her and tell her to let me reexperience the moment while playing that damn song some people wait a life time for a moment like this.....peace out and have fun.......DONT APOLOGIZE!!!!!

Answer 5

It's like the second time only shorter.

Answer 6

the first time....
well, honestly it was awkward and not so pleasurable. neither of us knew what we were doing. but i have gottne quite good at it over the years...practice makes perfect...

Answer 7

nothing you can put into words, for a girl it can hurt though.

Answer 8

u don't need to know until after u r married

Answer 9

something that u have never experience

Answer 10

a new experience
;-)