I met this girl in highschool she sweet i talk to her all the time, she has a cute smile and is beatiful and n has a great personality but she is taken. Her boyfriend was with her about 2 months ago but he jus dumped her. That hurt me so bad because i could see how much that hurt her. Then this past weekend she hooked up with him again. This hurt me evn more. Im confused and not sure what to do. I wanna tell her my felings but i dont wanna ruin things, because she is my world but i havent told her. I told her that i care about her and that i will protect her under any circumstances but i told her as a friend. She loves the guy but knowin her boyfriend he will probablydump her,and if he dumps her she is gonna be so down and sad and i dont want that.
So if u guys can help me i would really appreciate it
2006-12-21 11:02:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be her friend and if her bf dumps her make sure your their for her.
show the side she wants to see and just wait she will soon see you she is just not opening her eyes
i hope everything works good luck
2006-12-21 11:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by godschild 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been in a similar situation. The best thing to do is to get her alone and tell her your feelings about you and her, and her current situation. The guy shes going out with will only do the same thing again.
You obviously have feelings for her, and keeping that inside can make ya sick bro.
2006-12-21 19:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your story has been played out the same way a million times. My advice is to date a lot of other women and not wait around for her to suddenly want you. Just keep in contact with her as a friend and force yourself to get out and meet other girls. That's the best advice I can give you. Remember: She's free to date any man she chooses including you, but chooses to date that guy that "does her wrong". Lot's of love songs have that very theme if you listen closely!
2006-12-21 19:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by bobweb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro, I have had this situation before and it sucks. The best thing to do is to invite her to hang with you more and see the real you. As you get her to step away from her boyfriend and the more you show her how real you are...she'll have it like cake on her birthday. Most importantly when your out with her, when you hang out...outside of school, treat her like a lady and flirt it up with her, but don't express everything. Give her a small taste of what you got and have her wanting more. Do it to it!
2006-12-21 19:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by Clayton A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that mabye you should try to spend more time around her.Get to know her a little better.Thay way you can show her what a great guy that you are .Give her hints on how you feel then maybe every thing will fall in place.
2006-12-21 19:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats awful! i mean, that her recent "bf" is putting u both thru so much pain. if i were u, i would tell her that you care for her as more than a friend. maybe tell her first that u dont think that her bf is being fair or good to her. but dont try to sound controlling. many girls, including myself, hate to be controlled. just tell her that, then ease in your true feelings for her. you never know, maybe she'll realize she cares for u too! if she doesnt care for u the way u do for her, just make it clear u still want to be friends. GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-21 19:07:32 · answer #6 · answered by Bohemo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.......... so..... maybe she likes to be dumped... so...... as a friend..... dump her.... and if she comes back to you, to ask you why, than you`ll see that she cares a lil` bit about you, and you can also tell her, that you couldn`t take it anymore, and that you love her, and u loved her since the first time you saw her :x :) good luck :D
2006-12-21 19:05:50 · answer #7 · answered by Apollo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same situation
2006-12-21 19:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by Bige 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that you would like to date her when she is free. then wait and see how she reacts.
2006-12-21 19:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by anirbas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should talk to her and actually see how she feels then make your move.
2006-12-21 19:07:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋