please tell me what you think ,i need to figure out what to do
2006-12-21 10:41:33 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont get married
2006-12-21 10:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Lek 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you need to get over your ex before getting engaged again. This rebound stuff never does anyone any good. Take some time to figure out what's important to you, and what you want to do. You WILL get over your ex, just make an effort to do so, don't dwell on the past. But it is unfair to rush into a new serious relationship if you can't give it 100% of your time. Be honest with yourself and your fiancé.
2006-12-21 10:46:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are engaged? you should be mature enough to not ask this question. These are the kinds of things that get me upset. People think they can just play with our emotions or what? If you dont love him why are you with him.. Thats it! even this, why are you engaged? are you that insecure that you are not going to find someone else to love or that loves you back? Poor guy, is not fair to him, stop wasting his time and put an end to it.
2006-12-21 10:46:42 · answer #3 · answered by ahuga 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to break off the engagement now, because either you will wait till the wedding day and leave them at the alter or you will marry them and both of you will be unhappy and add to the divorce rate. So just break it off NOW!!!
2006-12-21 10:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by lilcc2006sing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wasting this guy's time and break off the engagement. You're on the fast track to divorce.
2006-12-21 11:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by Nat R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry someone you aren't in love with. You aren't doing anyone any favors by doing that! As far as being in love with your ex, get over it. Get on with your life. I don't say this to be crass or cold, I just know what it's like to pine away for someone that you'll never be with. The sooner you get over your ex, the sooner you will be able to recieve real love. Just don't get married to one person when you are in love with another, it never works out.
2006-12-21 10:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break off the engagement!
2006-12-21 10:46:06 · answer #7 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to break off the engagement. It is not fair to you or your fiance' to get married if you are not in love.
2006-12-21 10:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by girlinlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call off the engagement. breaking someones heart and leading them on is not the right thing to do.
2006-12-21 10:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by Miss E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say to your fiance that this can not work out. Do not tell him why but if he asks say I am in love with someone else! Then go to your ex and ask if he cares if he does then go out with him again and see if it works out! Good luck!
2006-12-21 12:42:28 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've GOT to tell your fiance the truth. You're about to promise to spend your life with this person. You can't lead them on, it will only hurt more.
2006-12-21 10:46:28 · answer #11 · answered by Emily M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋