Being a dominant woman...?

Question

I met a guy and he is really into a woman having control in the bed room, a woman being dominant, and a woman making the first moves....iv never done any of that before...but i really want to try...any advice??

Answer 1

how about role playing? sometimes that makes people feel more free...you could also play the domantrix role and dress in leather and black........
for something more subtle and to ease your way into it.....tell him to shut up...throw him on the bed and dictate how things will go..think of all the things you like and do them..and tell him how to do them

Answer 2

uiyoooo... panasnyerrrr.... Ok.. Define a dominant wife… - U call a wife as dominant when she deletes your phonebooks, when she checks on you everytime, all the time, you can’t even breathe. - U call a wife dominant when she yells at you at humiliates you in public, and somehow, thinks that its okay. - U call a wife dominant when somehow, she thinks that she SHOULD have the control power over her husband. So is independent n self-reliant is dominant? huh... sesaper yang fikir camni..samer cam yaya.. aku pon tak hingin...JERKK!! wud rather be single kalo takat nak bini yglembik n ikut telunjuk je.. Housewives and career-driven wives are just the same. You don’t call them dominant and fierce just because they stand for what they believe. A marriage needs to be in 50-50. Why should a wife be dominated by her husband then? If one is dominant over the other then the other feels inferior and like he or she wil never be better or even be good enough for the other… Correct? In terms of financial terms, we do what we can, I’m a woman, u’re a man. Be it (the contribution ratio) 70:30% (man:wife) money earnings, or be it 30:70% (man:wife) child’s need and support or 50:50% (man:wife) emotion contribution..We have our own roles to play, in order to be in full running.. :)

Answer 3

I used to be pretty submissive and whatnot when it came to dating and sex and all, really passive...like, if it happens it happens, but I wouldn't make the first move ever. Then I realized the reason I wasn't getting any dates or getting what I wanted in bed is because if you want something, you have to go after it and get the damn thing! lol...Just initiate sex, don't wait for him to do it and make it so either your doing it NOW or you ain't doin it. lol. Just don't let him have the reins, you be totally in control and tell him what you like, how to make you feel good and if he isn't doing it right direct him in the right way! Hope this works and good luck!!!

Answer 4

If he merely wants an assertive woman, who starts things off once in a while that's a very realistic request. If he is expecting you to turn into a Dominatrix.... he has deeper issues. Marriage is give and take... there is nothig wrong with him starting things off once in a while and you at other times. Just so someone starts things off...

Answer 5

i like a girl that can be dominant sometimes. thats sexy. start off on top and tell him what you want. demand. dont ask. you choose the position, speed, and how you want it. maybe even get a little rough. if he's into it, awesome. its fun for both of you. now, if he wants you to be dominant all the time, i think this guy might not be much of a guy.

Answer 6

I hate to be a little forward, but get on top. It feels better and helps you get off anyway... Kama sutra and toys are a good option as well... You'd tell him where to go, what to do and so on...

Answer 7

Go to the store and get some toys ....they will be able to help you there

Answer 8

Congratulations you've caught yourself a MAN-GINA !

Answer 9

think of whaty you want ,of what you day dream of ,talk too him of his thoughts . and it will work out

Answer 10

just let the freak in you come out.