ok if my friend is 15 and she has a 3 year old and her 3 year old is very smart, very talented, in preschool, has many friends, says what she feels. my question is:when this little girl grows up to be a little lady will she has as many advantages?
2006-12-21 09:54:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
i would imagine, that if she is very smart, and always excels academically, than she will have a lot of advantages. it shouldn't matter who her parents are.
2006-12-21 09:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by whosaidthat? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course she will have disadvantages. She does not have an adult for a mother. She is being raised by a child, who lacks the life experience and coping skills of an adult. What's more is that the mother's social skills, coping skills, and mentality will be "stunted" because she will have to stpe out of her social life with peers to take on the responsibilities of raising a child. No, you do not "grow up faster" when you have a child. You just get stuck, spinning your wheels.
I would strongly advise that you suggest to her that she attend parenting classes. Teens tend to react emotionally and make decisions based on their emotions. That is not a good thing. Additionally, adolescence is a really narcissistic time in someone's life, and one must repritoritize everything when they have a child. That child didn't choose to be born, but they were, and they deserve all the care and considerations that the mother had when she was born.
2006-12-21 10:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
by the looks of how smart the daughter is it would seem that she would grow up to have many advantages as long as she keeps going down the same road in life she should come up with many advantages
2006-12-21 10:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by em 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
children are a product of they're enviornment-so the more time she spends in what you might call a 'safe' or healty' enviornment she may grow up to be the 1st female president!! if you spend time with her -just love her like jesus-surround her with all the love you can 'muster up ' and you may be surprised by the fact -that you just may learn something about yourself too-good luck and merry christmas
2006-12-21 10:05:54 · answer #4 · answered by barely40lookingatmy80s 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't see why not.
2006-12-21 09:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by missyhardt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes as long as her mother is being a mother and not being a kid and teach her all she needs to know she has all the advantages that any other kid that was raised well would have
2006-12-21 09:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes she will because she will be able to stand for something and let no one make her feel less than what she is.
2006-12-21 10:11:34 · answer #7 · answered by Neek-Neek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends who she hangs around with example: if she hangs out with the bitchy popular type then she might start to "turn into one" or if she hangs out with good friends who dont use her or anything like that.... but once again you can never tell kids are unpredictable!!!!!!
2006-12-21 09:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a little to early to ask that question... Why do you wait until she gets into grade school?
2006-12-21 09:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your friend had a baby when she was 12? OMG - kids are having sex at 12?!
2006-12-21 09:58:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋