I'm breaking up with my wife of three years and have since met this wonderful gal on the net...we talk every day and I know what she looks like from her myspace page and visa versa....I have no where to go when I live the missus, she's offered me to stay with her and it'll have to be soon, though we plan to meet in a couple of weeks and I want to move in soon after....she can't wait to be with me and I her....should I just take the offer or try and secure another place, though it means seein' a lot less of her.....and I want us to be together....
2006-12-21 09:39:15 · 26 answers · asked by JackLove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My wife is emotionally abusive and controlling....she wants all of the M'n'M's soorted into colours and then placed in a order according to her least favorite colour between the years 1987 and 1993....Oh and she wants anal sex...thats just freaky!
2006-12-21 09:44:32 · update #1
That depends on lots of things really! How long have you been chatting to each other? Do you talk on the phone or just on line? What do u REALLY know about her and vice versa!? I could be like everyone else that has answered your question and advise you not to do it but if i was to do that then it would just make me the hypocrite since i met my boyfriend on line, thru his brother in law, started of just chatting on line when he was using his bro in laws pc, then talking on the phone and eventually he moved from Scotland down to the south of England and we've been together eva since, we're expecting a baby in the new year, he found a job here and we are very happy! Sometimes its just about taking a gamble, just be careful i guess! I was one of the fortunate ones but so often you read about the disaster that happen thru couples that meet on line but if you think you know her well enough and really want to be with her then go 4 it-just dont use her to escape your bunny boiler missus!!
Good Luck! xx
2006-12-21 11:01:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're moving out of the house you shared with a woman you've know more than 3 years into a house of a woman you barely know? Does this really seem to be a good idea to you?
You'll be well and truly fu*ked if she turns out to be worse than your soon to be ex-wife!
Why can't you find a place near her if you want to see her more often - or try spending a weekend at hers - you truly don't know someone until you've spent a full 48 hours in their company.
A person can only keep a front going for so long - then you become aware of their mouth breathing, toenail biting, butt digging, crotch adjusting real-self.
Although I'm not saying your gal has any of those foul habits of course.
2006-12-21 17:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by Chantel C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok SERIOUSLY - you need to meet this girl BEFORE you plan to move in with her. In the first place, even if that really is her picture, you might not have any chemistry when the two of you meet in person. Second, how the heck do you know that is the REAL picture of her. At least get a computer cam and chat live on that. You dont want to get stuck in some weird and uncomfortable situation. I speak from experience, I flew to Boston to meet some guy who I was "in love" with from Online - we had both seen each others pictures - I was gonna move up there, blah, blah, blah - well when I got there it was BAD BAD BAD. Totally not truthful. Meet her first before planning a move in!!!
2006-12-21 17:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by theotherwoman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No No No No didn't you just leave that. Or are you leaving your wife of 3 years for her? Ask yourself how did I end in a breakup in the first place. You are going to need time to answer yourself so stay at your own place and take your time. I know that there is comfort in having someone there but for some reason they didn't stay there. Stop and Take Your Time
2006-12-21 17:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by bigdandsoni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its not such a good idea to move in with a complete stranger. why don't you try to secure a place - and get to know this girl better? if you two realise that you are "made for each other", then you should definately move in with her. but think that now you are leaving with a person whose habits you absolutely know. though you may not like it, it will feel strange to have to adjust to a stranger (theoritically, everybody is a stanger til you live with them, only then you get to really know someone). think of how you would feel if this didn't work out, and instead of one you ended up having to get over two relationships.... take your time, enjoy your days as a free man, get to know her and then take this new relationship to the next level! (ps. i have a friend who is kind of a control freak...i think he would get really horny if he saw your wife dividing her M'n'M's into categories.... want his phone number? heheh...)
2006-12-21 18:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by Vassia* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont move in with her..get your own place and live indepentantly for awhile. Meet this girl and get to know her over time. You need to be on your own now that you have split up with your wife and take things slowly. Dont get involved too soon as it could be on the re-bound (that old cliche!!)
2006-12-21 17:43:44 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be real careful and if you can afford it get a place by yourself until you really know this girl, she may be hell on wheels. She may even be a cross dresser sometimes they look just like the opposite sex. This moving in with someone your really don't know, she maybe a ex con , you better check her out real good, because this is dangerous.
2006-12-21 17:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by Nicki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really risky, why dont you meet here first and get to know her better. moving in with here straight away is a big nono. just coz u think you know her online, you dont. theres so much more to learn. ifyou must, get to know her first and then discuss moving in much later. but for now, stay at a friends or rent a place. its way too fast to move inwith a stranger from the net. see the sense mate xx
2006-12-21 17:43:32 · answer #8 · answered by chatterbox15 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are just coming out of a marriage, you should live on your own. Spend time getting to know her in person first before you jump into living with her.
2006-12-21 17:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by Danru 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you do talk to her everyday. I think you should marry her the first time you see her, shack up with her, and knock her up with a baby that in the future will have to suffer from divorce because his parents are dumb @ss's and didn't know each other well enough to get married.
2006-12-21 17:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by Jewells 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋