we are not too good financially right now , but I WANT TO PROVE TO HIM THAT IM NOT ON ANYTHING !!!! ITS DRIVING ME CRAZY .. Any ideas for someone that is totally Broke >>>?
Argggg ,,, Thx .. Brandi
2006-12-21 09:37:32 · 15 answers · asked by crazy2bcrazy 1 in Health ➔ Dental
p.s. im in las vegas nevada !!!
2006-12-21 09:43:44 · update #1
honestly pay the $$$ to get tested, isnt it worth it?
2006-12-21 09:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have bigger problems than trying to have a drug test. Your relationship is already heading for trouble when a partner cannot trust you enough to believe what you say. If you are not taking drugs and tell him so, that should be enough. If you have to PROVE to him that you are not taking drugs, then you will have to PROVE to him everytime he accuses of you something. These are the actions of a control freak.
I suggest you forget the drug testing and reconsider your relationship with a person who will not trust you.
2006-12-21 17:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by S H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear, I think you dont have to prove anybody your word, specially if it is ´difamation´or similar. You are sure you don´t do them, so why can´t he just trust you?
You do that, and you´ll open a door, that allows him keep saying anything and you go to ´prove him wrong or right´... And that´s not trust. And trust is the main ingredient of a relationship. Like it or not....
What if he comes later on that you´re cheating on him when you aren´t? How can you prove that? TRUST-TRUST* and if you dont get it there, find somebody that does... Is something we all deserve... A basic human right...
2006-12-21 17:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by myself! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about dumping the fiance. If he knows and trusts you, and you say you are not on drugs, then he does not believe you. There is no trust in this relationship now, it won't matter if you get a negative test, because you will come to resent him for not trusting you in the first place. Save your money and dump this loser.
What in your behaviour leads him to think that you are on drugs for God's sake? And why is he not believing you to begin with? These are the questions you need to ask yourself.
2006-12-21 17:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by phantomlimb7 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its like $25-$30 for an at home test. If your fiance is that convinced you are on drugs, tell him to go and buy a test, and if he doesn't want to, tell him to quit his bitching. Maybe he's doing this accusing cause he's looking for a way out of his engagement???
2006-12-22 14:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by The Mullet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to stay with a person when you are having this silly problem even before you are married? Do you think his paranoia is going to get any better after the wedding, even if you show him a clean drug test?
Such ideas on his part are irrational. People with irrational ideas don't suddenly get rational just because you married them. They generally get worse.
He has given you a clear sign -- you ought to be with someone else. Don't bind your life to people with mental problems like this.
http://druglibrary.org/schaffer
2006-12-24 12:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by Cliff Schaffer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a drug test whether from drug store or clinic. When it comes back negative....dump him. What will he accuse you of next? He may be using you to take the limelight off himself.
Show him the door and open it for him....good riddence.
2006-12-21 18:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I know several. again, you're not helping your cause without telling anyone WHERE YOU ARE!
do an internet search (i like metacrawler.com) for "free clinic" and "drug test" and your town and see what comes up.
Alternatively, you CAN buy the drug store tests, but they are usually for something specific, like marijuana or cocaine...i think you can get some that are just "narcotics" or "opiates...."
2006-12-21 17:41:14 · answer #8 · answered by drswansondds 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I cannot think of a greater factor in a relationship, of any kind, than trust. If he doesn't trust you, then dump him! He can't Love you if he can't trust you, and he can't 'kinda trust you', trust and distrust are like darkness and light...they cannot co-exist.
2006-12-21 17:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by justbuddy67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a part time job somewhere that does mandatory drug screening, then just quit after you pass
2006-12-21 17:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋