well, i'm just affraid to start dating someone because of what happen in my pass and i think for me there all the same... but i need help or advace.....
2006-12-21 09:35:24 · 6 answers · asked by twinkle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one can tell you when you're ready to start dating again. Just take your time and when you're ready then start. Don't let what happened in your past prevent you from future happiness. All things happen for a reason. Maybe he just wasn't the right one. Be patient and dont stop yourself from being in love because of a failed relationship.
2006-12-21 09:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you experienced a lot of trauma meaning a real bad relationship including physical or mental abuse perhaps you should wait a while longer and possibly seek counseling from a womens shelter or possible your local social services office.
If your separation and divorce were on amicable terms, i.,e., reasonable and rational if not friendly, I would think you should be able to start dating when it happens. I wouldn't advise trying to meet people cause it seems that when you try meeting people they're turned off.
2006-12-21 09:47:04 · answer #2 · answered by telwidit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah girl, go for it! not all men are the same. maybe you're just looking for the wrong type of person, or in the wrong places! put on some sexy jeans and heels and get out there! don't let the same thing happen to you again. hold up your guard. you'll be fine. you've gotta start sometime, so why not now?! good luck!
2006-12-21 09:39:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully history will not repeat itself and you will become involved in a happy and healthy relationship. But to allow this fear to control your life you will never find happiness. Put the past behind you and allow your true self to be seen by others and certainly begin dating once again. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-21 09:38:49 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically act like pals nonetheless, despite if it quite is meant to blossom into something it is going to, basically because you're relationship now does not propose your friendship ought to alter, suitable pals make the suitable enthusiasts. He possibly knows you alright and because you have been pals so long, i understand you're gentle with him. basically pass with the pass.
2016-10-15 09:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's no reason why you should.Take things easy for awhile.
2006-12-21 09:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by rossj12003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋