This happened several years ago and we are still friends but no longer together. I feel a lot of guilt now that this was wrong, to much of an age gap and that we shouldn't have dated. She was a freshman and I was a junior. We started dating in October of 99 and I turned 17 that November. She turned 15 that following March so there was about a 2 year and four month age difference. At the time I justified this by looking for examples of people who were dating who had that age gap, or by looking at my parents who started dating when they were in high school and they were similiar ages. We never had intercourse but we did have some sexual relations. She had had boyfriends older before and I feared that if broke up with her she would just end up dating one of the other older guys my age who liked her so I used these for justificiations. Her parents were very good people and they allowed it with lots of supervision but nonetheless allowed it. Was I completely in the wrong and what do I do no
2006-12-21 09:33:56 · 14 answers · asked by Other 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a good question here.
Is it wrong nah not really I'm 22 and my woman is 24 and we are 2yrs and few months apart. There are many couples with the same age gap as us. Now since you were both in highschool when you were dating there is the tendency for that to be wrong. Thats really a personal decision. If her parents were cool with it as long as there was supervision and you said there was no intercourse so it wasn't just about sex eh.
Nah i wouldn't feel guilty about it it was in your past and you learn from it. Nobody got hurt so I wouldn't worry about it anymore
HOpe that helps
2006-12-21 10:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Dan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only 2 years difference, that's definately nothing. I don't see anything wrong with the age difference! At least you were both in high school ... although I don't see anything wrong with a junior or senior going out with a recent graduate ... it's when this gap gets bigger (I'd say 3 or more years) that maturity levels are so different, then it's not so good.
2006-12-21 17:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by T'Vral 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat yourself up over this. I don't feel like you have done anything wrong. Two and a half years is not really that big of an age gap. When you are 22 she will be 20. What is wrong with that?
2006-12-21 17:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom was 15 when she got pregnant with my brother. My dad was 17 I believe. It happens. I don't know the law on it. You were both underage. I wouldn't worry about the past. Just live a clean life now dude! You're fine!
2006-12-21 17:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by yakimablueyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats only 1-2 years its fine my aunt and uncle are 7 years apart ur fine
2006-12-21 17:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by krazylady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that she had a preference for older guys. It is not your fault. You should feel no guilt.
2006-12-21 17:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by shirleyshemp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2006-12-21 17:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by ndmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its only 2 year difference it's nothing
2006-12-21 17:37:19 · answer #8 · answered by flyd.rpap1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with that.it was legal.now if u had been 18 then that would hav been bad...
2006-12-21 17:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by via 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong!!!
Im 14 and my bf is 18!!
I don't care!!!
2006-12-21 18:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋