Why is she so cold?

Question

My friend recently txted my workmate saying that i like her. Its true, i do like her, and i planned on telling her myself in person, but now its too late. Anyway, i worked with her last night, and i could sense something was up. She is usually very friendly and chatty, and is always nice to me. But last night, she was very cold, rude, and not talking or even looking at me all through our shift. Work was very unhappy and uncomfortable for me. What made things even more confusing was that initially she was cold, but then she was warming up to me as we worked, until my friend came to visit me at work. After my friend (The same one that txt her) came, she acted even more "bitchy"/distant than before. She is leaving work soon, hence i planned on telling her before she left, but now i found out that she is leaving tomorrow. What is up with her change in attitude? Any suggestions on how i could make things better before she leaves? I have her cell phone number, so i could txt or call her

Answer 1

she likes someone, either you or your friend. and quite honestly, if she has to play games like that, and can't talk you about it then you don't need her. your friend knows more than you do since he/she told her, and you need to know what the conversation was between your friend and the girl after your friend told her. I'd recommend you keep your crushes away from your friend in the future.

Answer 2

You need to talk to her and explain your feelings for her yourself, your friend was out of line speaking for you. It's sounds as if your friend said more than you did to this person.

Answer 3

well you will have to tell her how you fell. It is better that way because second hand news is not always right, maybe she thinks that you are not man enough to tell her yourself.