GUYS: Do you prefer your woman with a career, at home or both???

Question

So, if you could choose, what kind of woman would you pick?

A. "Your woman" aka wife has a career and works a lot, but not too much that you guys barely see each other. Your relationship would be ok in this situation and she has lots of time for some lovin'! And you kids are well taken care of!

B. Your wife stays at home, to cook, clean and take care of the kids, and has dinner ready for you when you get home. Your relationship is good.

C. Both! She has a career, but still cooks for you. Good relationship and kids are well taken care of.

What would it be guys???

I'm still working on my career (law school starts next August)! I love to cook and bake, which I happen to be really good at. I love kids and I'm pretty darn cute, if I do so say myself! Wink Wink!
I like to think of myself kind of like a Stepford Wife, with a career! Haha! (Oh God, this sounds like a personal ad, but I swear, it's not!)

So, tell me what you would honestly pick, guys!!!

Answer 1

I prefer my woman to do whatever she wants.

FP

Answer 2

Depends on the man's view points of life. Not every educated man is exactly the same. I personally think someone who won't date someone based on education level is shallow. I don't think it's necessary unless you were getting married. People usually start with dating before marriage. Many men nowadays aren't traditional they prefer an equal partnership where both the woman and man share responsibilities. They both take on each others roles. Personally I would want a woman to have some ambition in life but she doesn't need to have a bunch of degrees.

Answer 3

Unfortunately, it really doesn't matter anymore in the U.S. Post-World War 2, women wanted to keep the jobs they worked while the men went to war. Afterwards the men returned, the military industrial complex started to downshift for peace time, and there was too many women willing to work for less than a man. Therefore you had a surplus of manpower (no offense meant there ladies) in the workforce, so companies got off light and made out like bandits. This has created the greatest economy in history to be sure, but it has also created a society where both partners have to work, unless you marry rich. ie. Kevin Federline.

Answer 4

B would be the ideal, or the ulitmate. However, I am mindful of the realities of finances today. It's even more important for a woman to be a B type when there are children, but again, the situation can be rough monetarily, and I'm aware of that.

I have never been married, and am a bit older. I assure you that B is what most men in my generation would want.

I would like to add, however, that it's important for a woman to be independent, strong and successful prior to getting married and to not be dependent upon men. That''s what I would cetainly tell my daugher, if I had one.

Answer 5

I prefer a "stay at home mom". And that's what my wife wanted to do. When our first child was born, she quit her job to stay home and raise the children. We lost 40% of our income, but we raised good kids. They may not have had the latest designer everythings, but they had a hands-on parent. They never had to be passed off to a baby sitter. In fact, none of my children have ever had a baby sitter in their life. They never tried alcohol, smoking, drugs, or sex. They all graduated with honors. They all have good jobs. They never had the opportunity to run the town unsupervised and get into trouble. We now have grandchildren, who are being raised by their stay at home mom. For us, the question was always, "How can I tell my kids that being at my job is more important than being with them?" I'm not judging others, but for us it was the right decision.

Answer 6

You know what, I feel that someone needs to tell you this:

You are really conceited
You think because you have big boobs you are hot and you feel like you need to keep reminding us that you have big boobs
You are shallow, even though we don't personally know you but just from reading your questions we can tell.
You are immature, you sound like you are 16 yrs old.
You're priorities are all screwed up
You are begging for attention by sounding like a personals ad
You still have a LOT to learn about life
I Suggest you sit back and think about yourself and how ridiculous you sound because I am Iranian and I know that the Iranian culture does not have respect for your type and I'm only saying that because I myself am not judgmental at all, but you seem to flaunt that you are "Persian" but yet most Persians would look down upon the way you carry yourself.

Answer 7

I would prefere A with a little of B mixed as a trade off cause I can cook too ;)

Answer 8

I would pick "C". I think it's nice to come home and you can talk to each other about work and still have time to cook for one another.

Answer 9

Who cares? I'm having a career and staying unmarried and childless whether they like it or not.

Answer 10

for me it depends on wt we decide me and her.
i would be okay with her workin and havin a career for some period of time, like untill we have kids. then she has to reconsider other option like spendin more time with me and her kids, and she can still get a part time job.