I have known my best friend all my life, were now 27. He started seeing his wife when she was 16 and got married a few years ago. I have always fancied her and my friend has always joked about letting me have sex with her, a few years ago he said to her about it as a joke and she said yes but nothing ever happened. Now he is saying that i can have sex with her if i want, she has only ever had sex with him and he wants her to see what its like with other men. So should i go for it and try and have sex with my best friends wife, who i have fancied all the time i have known her?
2006-12-21 09:06:49 · 59 answers · asked by paul g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. If you are given the chance go for it every time.
2006-12-21 09:10:43 · answer #1 · answered by freelander 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋
hahaha you have a unique situation. Can't imagine anyone else who would allow their best friend to sleep with their wife.
Really though, you shouldn't. At the time it might seem like a logical and not-so-bad idea, but it could hurt you later. If you "fancy" her, then sleeping with her would make you want her more. Do you really want her to leave your best friend because sleeping together made her do it?
I bet your best friend isn't afraid of letting you two sleep together because he thinks that his wife wouldn't leave him as a result. You're the man he can trust the most not to steal his wife away from him. But if you have feelings for her, you would be decieving your best friend by sleeping with her.
It would really complicate things too much and you would lose your best friend if the sex leads to more in the future.
Instead, find a woman who is free and who you can love freely!
2006-12-21 09:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by julka323 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it would be very destructive if you sleep with your best friends wife even if he says it's okay because he may say it's okay no but after it happens things will start to change and you'll start noticing that you two aren't as close as you used to be besides even though this is your best friend and you guys probably share everything this is not something you two should share besides who can predict the outcome what if she likes it and starts liking you then you'll ruin a marriage and not to mention your relationship with your best friend you may as well kiss that goodbye also
2006-12-22 08:27:25 · answer #3 · answered by cashmerecuutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No of course you shouldn't sleep with your best friends wife. If you no longer like the guy and hanging out with him then by all means do it, but as soon as you cross that line then his wife has cheated on him and he has grounds for a divorce and he will use the fact that you slept with her as the grounds for it.
Also he will throw up the fact that you are his best friend and you slep with his wife and all your other friends and family will know about it and you will be seen s the bad guy in all this. He's not going to let other people know that he mentioned to you that you could sleep with her. Besides which who is he to be pimping his wife out like this, obviously he has no respect for her, as if he did he wouldn't even be thinking about such things
2006-12-21 23:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just asking for trouble. What happens if you two find that you prefer eachother? That sure would get in the way of your friendship with your best friend. Don't you know the 'guy code'?.
It's Bro's before ho's.
It's crude, but thats like man law or something. Don't do it if you value your friendship.
All chicks are the same in the dark, so go find someone else.
2006-12-21 09:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you should seep with her before somebody else does, or just ask your friend if you can sleep with her, if he is a true mate he wont mind if you knock one into her, he may even ask if he can watch (i usually charge an extra tenner under these circumstances)
you dont say if you have a parter/wife, if you have then i would suggest a bit of swapping, nothing wrong with that between best friends. ps. your next question may be along these lines...my best friend tried to kill me what shall i do ? im sure i will be available to advise on that one too....good luck.
2006-12-21 12:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by jardon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you separate love and sex? Can they? ZI think you more then like her.
Flirting with danger and years of friendship possibly gone unless you definitely know the answer to both questions. You can answer the question that applies to you, but what about the one that applies to them?
Is a friendship worth a piece of azz?
2006-12-21 09:11:40 · answer #7 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a red blooded male - of course! Why not?! It's being offered to you on a plate - take it, devour and enjoy! I'd love to be in her position - she gets to spice up her life without any guilt trip. Why not come to some agreement - that if you and she enjoy it, then the experience can be repeated for birthdays and anniversaries.
Let us know how it all goes!!!!! This has got me REALLY excited.
2006-12-21 10:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What sort of weird world do you live in?
What in the world do you think that 10 or 15 minutes of fun will do in the long-run to the relationship w/ your friend or his wife?
Stop being an idiot if you can possibly help it.
2006-12-21 09:09:49 · answer #9 · answered by krinkn 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
your mad mate youl lose your best mate coz he will probably get jelous stuff like this never works out good there are always shockwaves to deal with later but in the end its up to you in saying that if there is any doubt then its doomed from the start
2006-12-21 09:21:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might seem like a good time at first but at the end you will lose your best friend and possibly end there marriage trust me nothing will be the same.
2006-12-21 09:10:43 · answer #11 · answered by dev'smummy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋