I really really want to be with this guy. I met him one day and liked him then, but now that we've had sex, he and I are both falling for each other. I want it to work between us, but I also want to make my racist family happy. I know I need to follow my heart, and I intend to wait and see where it goes before telling my family. I have had sex with guys in the past who that was all it was...sex. I never had feelings like this. Could I be falling for him? He says he feels the same.
2006-12-21 08:52:28 · 14 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't know about puppy love, honey. i'm 23 and he's 27. that's a little old for puppy love, isn't it?
2006-12-21 08:58:10 · update #1
u sure its not lust?
2006-12-21 08:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you're not just in LUST? Having sex before you know this guy better only clouds your judgment. I think you need to take time and really get to know each other and talk about how you will deal with your family as a couple. Take it slow and just enjoy this fun time when you are still on cloud 9. Good luck...
2006-12-21 09:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tantalizing Dutch Delilah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 05:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It is possible to fall for someone so quickly and the aftermath is the possibility to be falling out for someone so quickly. It is like when you had sex with the guy. The "falling in" and the "falling out" so quickly applies.
2006-12-21 09:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww, puppy love is so sweet. If you want to make your racist family happy, join the KKK
2006-12-21 08:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by Rose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your head. Don't fall completely head over heals for him this quick. Real love takes time.
2006-12-21 08:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got it bad, girl. But it sounds like he does, too, so congrats! Yes, it can happen that quickly. I hope everything works out with your parents - best of luck!
2006-12-21 08:56:34 · answer #7 · answered by skatoolaki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going without sex for a while, and if the feelings are still there, then you're falling :)
2006-12-21 08:55:27 · answer #8 · answered by goldenheartcity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most certainly if you have also talked with him and found out that you two have some similar interests etc.
2006-12-21 08:57:16 · answer #9 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And how! It is very, very possible to fall for someone at first sight, this is what we refer to as, "Love at first sight."
2006-12-21 08:55:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's possible to fall for somebody that quickly....
2006-12-21 08:54:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋