this guy is constantly complimenting me and has said before that he wishes he could be with someone like me (i was in a relationship at the time,not anymore).
i have kissed this guy a few times.we havent gone any further sexually even tho he wants to.
whenever we meet up,he always around me and is a true gent.after we have met tho,i dont hear from him for weeks!why?
i then find myself chasing him but he ignores me.i then forget im but he comes back and it all happens again!!!
help!!!!
i really like him!!!
he knows i came out of a 6 year relationship 9 months ago.he knew my ex.they are not friends and hes moved away.
he is single and isnt gay!!! lol xxx
2006-12-21 08:46:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he is playing hard-to-get, you need to back off and let him do the chasing.
2006-12-21 08:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he does like you and does want to get in your knickers...but thats all. If he does like you as much as you like him, he wouldnt leave it weeks without being in touch. He wants to make you sweat for him girl..so dont! All men love women chasing after them. He sounds lazy. I think he just wants you when you are there, and thats it. Sounds like a true player! Think about other girls he may be doing this. Please dont listen to me though, i dont know him and i dont know what sort of person he is, im just saying what i feel from what you have said. You have just got out of a relationship and are most probably quite vulnerable, but dont hop onto the first bus that comes along so to speak. Enjoy single life...before you know it your going to be single with so many kids lol...dont mean to put a downer on life or anything. Follow your heart girl...dont chase after his though!! Good luck sweety x
2006-12-21 08:56:58 · answer #2 · answered by SoldiersGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop chasing him, he knows you are doing the chasing and he will let you, this will make him feel good, and bordering on controling you.
Sit back and see how much he then wants you.
Yes I am a man, i have seen this happen many a time.
A true gent would not treat you like this idiot is.
once you give your body to him he will say bye bye darling.
Take care,
Cheers Les
2006-12-21 09:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by yoda1canobe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the two of you are playing the wonderful 'push me, pull me' game...
Getting together, enjoying it - then pushing the other away by ignoring them - then chasing...
You pretty much need to talk to him - and tell him that you really like him... and see how he responds... if he really likes you, and is really interested in you, he will hopefully explain what's going on on his side of this would be relationship.
I've done this kind of relationship before, and until the two of you get the communications thing taken care of, you'll end up playing this game until one of you finds someone else.
Good luck
-dh
2006-12-21 08:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, you can't do all the chasing it doesn't work that way. Hey must not like you that much simply because he is not chasing you. He needs to chase you also before it would really work out.
2006-12-21 08:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by ~College Lovin~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a player. He doesn't want you now that you are available. He isn't interested in a committed relationship. If you are seriously interested, try to act like you are not interested and see what happens.
2006-12-21 08:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by Why do you ask? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems to like you chasing him. id just stop and just wait. If he really likes you he will contact you. but you must let him do the chasing.
men get bored after a while so keep him guessing. play him at his own game!
2006-12-21 09:03:57 · answer #7 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are shying away from taking it to the next level. You could go on playing those games indefinitely, make a move on him, or move on. It's up to you.
2006-12-21 08:49:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like him but your sick of him playing games, then leave it up to him. No more chasing him etc. If he is truly interested he should get the message.
2006-12-21 09:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by mullitover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the typical male game to me honey. When your not free he wants you, when you are free and available he doesn't want you. Move on. Save your heart for someone who doesn't want to play games.
2006-12-21 08:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by righteousrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋