I just started dating this guy and he is extremley sincere and honest..no complaints, , he told me that he has never met a girl that is so trusting from the start and so kind. That made me feel special! So, he told me after about a month that he wants to be able to give me the kindness back, because he feels like he doesnt do it as much as I do. He also told me that he is afraid he is going to hurt my feelings, and he is not sure if he wants to pursue anything...What do u think I should do?
2006-12-21 08:44:04 · 12 answers · asked by nrsechica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should take it nice and slow. You should be careful of a guy who "wants" you to think he is sincere and honest. Actions speak much louder than words. If he is afraid of hurting your feelings it might be because he is worried about being caught. Be safe and don't go too fast.
2006-12-21 08:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First;
He threw the part about "never met a girl
that is so trusting from the start and so kind"
because he wants to assure himself you won't
cheat on him.
Second;
The part about " He also told me that he is afraid
he is going to hurt my feelings, and he is not sure
if he wants to pursue anything..."
He said that because he's feeling guilty.
I'm sorry but,
HE'S ALREADY CHEATED ON YOU.
2006-12-21 16:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Semaj S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax girl probably everything is gonna be allright listen to him and then you will see.
2006-12-21 16:47:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful he is trying to tell you that he is not going to do right by you so you won't be surprised when it happens
2006-12-21 16:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by delmonticoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the moment, have safe fun.
2006-12-21 16:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by Rick R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shold talk to him and she what reall on his mind and let him kno that you really want to be with him and not to trip over some like that
2006-12-21 16:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by Sean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he knows he will break your heart and doesn't want to put you in that place...so you should dump him...or just stick with it and see what happens
2006-12-21 16:46:51 · answer #7 · answered by Gordita de Oro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he feels you love him more than he loves you,hold back your feeling he might not be the one
2006-12-21 16:49:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what he means by he doesn't want to "hurt you."
2006-12-21 18:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may want to give you a bag of groceries.
2006-12-21 16:52:14 · answer #10 · answered by skydiver 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋