so theres this guy who i THINK i like, i mean im always flirting with him but somedays he just gets too clingy and i can't stand being around him. so anyway i asked him wht he was getting me for christmas and he said it was a suprise. a really really nice suprise. i'm scared i'm leading him on and i dont want him to spend a lot of money on me if i may not even like him that much.
what should i do!?
2006-12-21 08:12:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For one thing, stop lying. Of course you want his gift and you hope it's expensive. You are flirting with him on purpose because you know he likes you. You just want someone to tell you it's okay. Well, it's not okay to tease a guy. They tend to lose their minds when girls do that to them. You need to be straight up with him and let him know that you are only interested in him as a friend. You can't say you don't know if you like him or not. You don't like him as a boyfriend and you need to be straight with him. You should stop playing games with him. Thank you.
2006-12-21 08:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you don't want him to get you anything for christmas for starters. Would you want to buy someone something for christmas that was expensive or well thought out, and they aren't really into you?
You can talk with him, but dont flirt, since he seems to like you and you aren't sure. The key to talking with someone who has a crush on you that you don't recpriocate is to be polite, but not overly familiar. Treat them nicely, but don't joke so personally or whatever. That gets interpreted as flirting, because it's personal attention you wouldn't necessarily give other people.
2006-12-21 08:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by starlet_8 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A horse has a natural lead when going straight. you can change it by turning a circle , of a flying change of lead, you clue with your hands, legs and a slit weight shift in the saddle. if your horse feels choppy you are probably in the wrong lead. ride a figure 8 to work changes, and shift you weight at the cross over and tap the horse in front of the girth on the side you shift you weight too.Any body watching should not be able to see the weight shift after you get it down pat.
2016-03-29 02:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you ARE leading him on. So make a decision: date him or stop flirting. But is the only reason you don't like him is because he is too clingy?
2006-12-21 08:17:23 · answer #4 · answered by Keith 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if u r not sure then tell him. like say u just want to be friends for a couple of days to see how it works out because u dont feel like sharing ur world with anyone yet
2006-12-21 08:17:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be honest about your feelings to him and make him aware you dont want to date just be friends til you decide what you really want out of this so you dont end up hurting or misleading himm.
2006-12-21 08:17:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ivory_Flame 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you're not sure you like him face it, you don't like him.
Let him down easy and quit flirting with him. It's called leading on and it's not nice.
2006-12-21 08:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by Sir J 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
stop leading him on ask him how he feel about u an if he says sumthin positive u go 4rm there and let him know how u feel
2006-12-21 08:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by kesha 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just touch his penis. He will really appreciate that. It's easy, and it costs you nothing.
2006-12-21 08:33:06 · answer #9 · answered by Sax M 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't lead him on.
2006-12-21 08:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋