Me and my Girlfriend had a perfect relationship. We suddenly stopped communicating for about a month. After a period of trying to let her go, I started dating someone else. Not long ago, she called and gave me a pretty good reason why we lost contact. She let me know that she really wanted to be with me. But I started that new relationship. what should I do? I still love her.
2006-12-21 08:07:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anthony P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, obviously the relationship was not completely over. You didn't even take time before you started dating. I personally would not take you back.
2006-12-21 08:09:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lindsey J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how serious was this first relationship - how long did it last? And how serious was this second one - and how long? But usually when someone says they have a 'perfect' relationship, they don't. Communication is key, and it is impossible to find someone who agrees with you on every single thing - except if they're lying, which isn't good either. Any couple who says their relationship is perfect, who say they don't fight, are either lying or in denial, to be honest. I think before you ask whether you're a cheater or not, take a good look at your relationships and really be honest with yourself about them.
2006-12-21 16:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by FUBARChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you just stop talking like that and then start a new relationship?? If you ask me, you sound more needy if anything. You should've got rid of your baggage before starting a new relationship. Now you caused yourself DRAMA and have to break someone's heart. I wouldn't say cheater, more like a DOG.
2006-12-21 16:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by ginluvsrob06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfect relationship? Not in reality. Perfect relationships do not involve abandonment. Move on as she will do something like this again and will again have a "pretty good reason." Eventually, she will have a "pretty bad reason."
2006-12-21 16:39:54 · answer #4 · answered by adamsjrcn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you didnt cheat. tell her (if you havent already) that you didnt know what was going on. she stopped talking to you and you gave her sometime but still heard nothing. you assumed that you were breaking up so you moved on. she might get mad but she has no right to. but first you have to decide who you want to be with. and dont let her reason why she stopped talking to you be a factor for your decison. think about every moment in you relationship, good and bad, then think about everything in your new realtionship. try picturing yourself with one of them in a year or so and see which seems more comfortable to you.
2006-12-21 16:13:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the old girlfriend that you're seeing someone new. If you've moved on, then so should she. However, if you are just dating the new girl to "pass the time" and you still love the old one... Get back with her, man!
Best Wishes,
LB
2006-12-21 16:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by Love Bites 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Miscommunication problem. I would say that you are a cheater because it didn't take you long to go out and get another ho, hopefully you made it really clear to the first girl that you were going to do this.
2006-12-21 16:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by Yikes! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing what the "pretty good reason" is, but if you feel that she was honest and is worth the risk of breaking up with your new girlfriend, take the chance.
2006-12-21 16:09:32 · answer #8 · answered by Keith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go back to the X but is she going to stop communicating again with out telling you why!
2006-12-21 16:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by rdwngfever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its quite sad someone else is going 2 get hurt here for no fault of their own mainly 4 your selfishness."I obviously mean the new Girl friend who you are about to break her heart"
2006-12-21 16:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋