Why is it when a guy likes a girl and he spends money on her but she doesnt like him in that way but she enjoys what he buys her and shes never not once asked him to go out and buy her stuff he did it on his own and they get mad when the girl is talkin to someone she really likes why do guys get all butt hurt... isnt it the guys fault or is the girl the one doing worng?
2006-12-21 08:06:57 · 5 answers · asked by Moka♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ITS NOT ME ... I'M JUST ASKING... I HAVE MY OWN JOB AND MONEY TO BUY MY OWN THINGS... JUST A QUESTION...
2006-12-21 08:12:14 · update #1
ARE U GUYS BLIND... READ ABOVE.... ITS NOT ME... ITS A FU*CKIN QUESTION...
2006-12-21 08:15:19 · update #2
I guess you should not accept the gift if you are not into him. I sure have not had that problem it is hard to get my Boyfriend to get me any presents!
2006-12-21 08:10:12 · answer #1 · answered by Marcie E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on her ! If a guy asked her out and she did not think she was interested in him after the date she should have told him she liked him but like he wants her too. She used him, and then kept on using him. She could get a reputation and no one will be asking her out because she is not honest. Are you sure you want this kind of a friend. Has she done anything similar to you. Like go out with you when someone else could not go with her. Humm. She could not just not be able to find a nice guy after word gets out but she could loose a good girl friend too. I'd let her read these answers because you are a good friend in showing that you are concerned about what she is doing. Her actions could also affect your relationships too. You know the old saying. BIRDS OF A FEATHER , FLOCK TOGETHER.
2006-12-21 16:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by Marilyn M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are very, very wrong, and very, very selfish. If you do not like him, do not continue to lead him on by accepting his gifts. Let him know that you are not interested so that he can stop wasting his time on a scumbag like you who is willing to let him think he has a chance while you know full well he doesn't.
That is the only thing that you can do that is even remotely respectable.
2006-12-21 16:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by answerman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the girl who is doing wrong. Whether she asks for the gifts or not she is excepting them. If she is not interested in someone she should not except gifts at all.
2006-12-21 16:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by jonesty1284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls fault. If she didnt like him. She shouldn't be accepting his gifts.
2006-12-21 16:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋