Over the weekend i slept with this guy i was not that interested in him but i could see that he really liked me. Since the weekend he has been calling and textin me and i have ignored him. Today he sends me a TX msg saying that he has had test results back and they are not good.
When we slept to gather the comdom split and i went nuts so i think that maybe he is saying this to freak me out - and to be evil to me.
He will not answer his fone and he will not say what type of STI it is? I am gonna go and get tested tommorow.
But do you guys think he is doing this for attention??? cos i do
but i am still really worried
2006-12-21 07:56:43 · 37 answers · asked by deb_star_82 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I CAN SPELL THANK YOU VERY MUCH
btw, you were right, they changed it recently from sexually transmitted disease(STD) to sexually transmitted infection(STI). you are well informed
good luck
2006-12-21 08:08:36 · update #1
just get tested
2006-12-21 08:02:46 · answer #1 · answered by jenna_71591 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...he sounds like a freak. It never hurts to get tested for STD's so you might as well go in for a check up. I doubt he's serious though and is probably just trying to get your attention. Tell him that you've got a steady boyfriend if you have to talk to him that was gone for the weekend....and that you hadn't planned to tell him about at all. Also add that your boyfriend is extremely jealous, has a permit to carry a gun, is 6'2" and would get really pissed. Good Luck
2006-12-21 08:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call Your DOCTOR. Get tested,
For everyone bashing the phrase STI - it stands for Sexually Treansmitted Infection. Remeber Yahoo answers is a worldwide community, STD is what we call it here in the states
2006-12-21 07:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by skylark455st2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, everyone trying to say "It's called an STD" STI, VD, SD, are all acceptable for an infection or disease caused by sexual contact. And oh, yeah get tested, and stay away from him.
2006-12-21 08:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows what someone would be willing to do to be evil or get back at someone these days, so it might just be he is saying it and it's not true.
But I don't know of anyone that willingly would broadcast that they have an STI (or STD) so if I were you I'd go get tested just to be on the safe side.
2006-12-21 08:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by Madspin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes life kicks you in the @rse to give you a wake up call, we have all at sometime been with a tw@t who either hurts us physically, emotionally, mentally or financially
Just ignore his calls and leave well alone, get checked up and God willing you will be fine, without being boring or prudish have a wee bit more respect for yourself and at least wait beyond a first date / night before providing any horizontal happiness
2006-12-21 08:11:10 · answer #6 · answered by JAYFIRE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard call to make. I think you should go get tested just to be on the safe side and hang up your one-night stand shoes. You don't want history to repeat itself in the future. He could be doing this to get under your skin from not answering his calls or text messages. But don't call him anymore your giving him the attention he wanted in the beginning.
2006-12-21 08:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by jonesty1284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get tested anyway but I think it is rather quick for him to have been tested and to have the results from an STI test since last weekend. It would also be rather early for symptoms to be presenting on you.
I suspect he is being a git to you but the safest thing is to get yourself tested
2006-12-21 07:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by delphi13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being an asshole because you have been ignoring him. What a jerk! You will be fine, but after you get back from the doc, holler at me. We will load up the truck and go hunt him down like a dog. What an absolute jerk!!! That makes me furious. Don't try to call him anymore. He probably justs laughs when he sees your number on his phone. Don't give him the pleasure. Daaaang, what a jerk.
2006-12-21 08:02:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the GUM clinic an STI is not a death sentence. Usually a course of antibiotics. Nice fella not answering phone.
2006-12-21 08:01:14 · answer #10 · answered by d1ckdeckard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just being a g*t. Go for the test in case and tell everyone he knows he was cr*p in bed to get your own back if the test is negative.
Remember in future only to have sex with someone you trust 100%.
2006-12-21 08:01:32 · answer #11 · answered by monkeymanelvis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋