I've found out that some men feel they need to lie to get what they want. A man who is only interested in a woman for sex feels the need to lie when asked " what are your intentions with me or what do you want from me?". Apparently women won't give it up if the guy is completely honest about what he wants, so he lies. Men get upset with this, and wonder why women get upset when you tell them you only want sex, and that you are not interested in them as a person, or their personality. Guys feel angry and upset when they learn a woman is only interested in them for their money, so why do men feel it's wrong for a woman to get upset?
2006-12-21 07:40:22 · 7 answers · asked by mslilbit24 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok I understand your point dkiller88, but most of the time we are more upfront in stating what we want and what we dont want. But you haven't answered the question.
2006-12-21 08:50:12 · update #1
Because society teaches men that they are stronger, better, and greater than women, so of course, all of us girls ought to bow down and do as they wish. Only some guys act like that, and partially I blame it on society teaching it to them and partially on big egos. Again though, not all guys act that way.
2006-12-21 07:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by kita_zira 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, lets reverse the question, here. Why cant you women be more upfront with this issue? I mean, if you are not going to put out, why not just say that from the start, and eliminate your dilemma as to whether the guy is just lying, and wanting sex? Just tell the guy "I aint having sex with you", and eliminate the guesswork on his part. If he walks away, so what? Thats one less player to worry about.
2006-12-21 15:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by dkiller88 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Actually I made it a point to let my "fun" buddy that.
I stated that this is just strictly sex and that we could hang out. But that is all I am after. Just so the both of us can satisfy our carnal needs. (he he)
It is a lot of fun just having a partner for that reason. Gets stress out of your system and you can really explore when it comes to that then. As neither of you are worried what the other things, just as long as both have fun and get off.
2006-12-21 15:49:52 · answer #3 · answered by offspringkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sentiments exactly. We are always looked down on for what we want but they should have the right to do whatever they want. Call me a gold digger all you want. I feel the only thing men have to offer me is sex when I want it, fixing things for me and $$$$. Really, other than that what are they good for ?
2006-12-21 15:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because what socitey is potraying of females today. these damn females on desperate housewives and soap operas make it look like all females want is sex. females are not all horny bitches in heat. that's why they feel it wrong for women to get upset about it because society shows on tv that it is okay for men to want nothing but sex from his wife/lover/girlfriend/mistress.
2006-12-22 10:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by ezekiel's mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they dont understand that a woman has to be very careful about her choices, that if she makes a mistake, she is stuck with it for life.
2006-12-21 15:50:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Point ^^
2006-12-21 15:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by jlnunez06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋