im moving out of state TOMORROW. i was with my ex for 2 and half years. we broke up like 4 weeks ago. he already has another gf. yeah, they were talking behind my back for a week while we were still together. but gah, i still love him more than anything in this world. even through all this yes, i do still love him and want to be with him. he keeps telling me he is over me blah blah. he wants to be friends and stuff. but yesterday he was getting all pissed at me cause im moving. he said that he wont talk to me for a while if i move. and that just shows me, that he isnt over me. right? he says that he will miss me. and all this crap. holding me by a string. but i dont see why he cares if he already has another gf. i know he still cares about me and stuff. but im doing this to be happy. cause being with him was the only thing that made me happy. so now that were not together i can start over again. but i dont want to leave him. && i dont want him mad at me. what should i do? help me!!
2006-12-21 07:35:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is hard to let go...but if your the only one who feels this way...then it isn't love, especially when he was the one who cheated....they say to love someone is to let them go?.....me, i prefferred to just accept things the way they are....if you both were meant be together, then that shouldn't had happen...i just see it as, he needs you....only for "booty call" or to just get back at his girl....if they ever had a fight....move on and love your self first .....from experience.
2006-12-21 07:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this dudes just wants to have around for a backup, he wants to eats off of two pieces of cake. Move on I wonder what state ur moving to,anyways always remeber one thing "Love will only take so far" Love will only do much,if its not there it will be seen with urs own eyes if u pat atten. to it. y put up with it move on,be happy and y wait for someone who does not want u he have proven it. Hope everything turns out ok ....laters
2006-12-21 15:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by vito194 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok he cheated and you want to move on. the only reason he is acting like an *** now is if things don't work out with her. he still wants a chance with you to fall back on. he is a player so move. Where are you moving to? I move after my break up with my ex. we should talk more.
2006-12-21 15:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you have a problem leaving somebody whose not only childish enough to get a "girlfriend" (rebound sex chick) not even a month after your breakup but disloyal enough to talk to her while you two were dating? this is the person who your confused about?? wheres the confusion? your willing to waste a get oppertunity over this guy? would he do the same for you? after leaving you could start over and get a backbone and some stregnth to leave this guy not only physically but emontionally. NEVER waste time, money, energy or sleep over someone who's not willing to do it (or doing it) for you.
2006-12-21 15:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by Tyi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a power control thing for him and his gf is probably laughing with him at you is he the only male around in the world
get a grip maybe try being a lez
2006-12-21 15:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by sands 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what is going on but i cant explain it just in a answer i will take to long so email me at golfinchamp06@yahoo.com and i will tell you exactley whats goin on. why would he break up with someone as beautiful as you. i sure wouldnt
2006-12-21 15:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by jordan l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut the strings completely go on
2006-12-21 16:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by dano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll get over him.
2006-12-21 16:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋